Beyond Expectations and Moments of Freedom
Sohyun Lee
Sohyun Lee
This photograph from Tokyo Skytree is more than just a landscape. It captures my family's first international trip after a long pause, revealing a moment of personal awakening. The image shows the city transitioning between sunset and night, with pretty purple and blue colors meeting together. Suspended high above Tokyo, I found a perspective that stretched far beyond the immediate view—much like how I'm learning to see myself.
Growing up, I've felt constantly defined by expectations. Academic achievements, extracurricular activities, the constant pressure to succeed—these become invisible boundaries that can feel suffocating. The year after COVID, when I couldn't travel, I realized how these expectations limited my ability to feel joy. My world felt burdened by academic workload and pressure, a constant stream of achievements and deadlines that seemed to define my entire existence.
When I travel, something happens. Away from the familiar constraints of home and school, I discovered a sense of belonging that has nothing to do with my grades or achievements. Although Tokyo isn't my hometown, I felt safe being my true self. The city below me, awakening between sunset and night, became a powerful metaphor for breaking free from daily expectations. Each street light coming to life, each building emerging from the shadows, reflected my own process of self-discovery.
Family travels have always been a fundamental part of my identity. These journeys create connections to different cultures and perspectives, showing me that who I am can't be reduced to a list of accomplishments or a single narrative. OC Focus taught me that every story matters, especially those left untold—just like the hidden moments that truly shape our understanding of ourselves. The organization revealed to me that identity is a complex, multilayered experience that goes far beyond what we're typically told.
This photograph is evidence of that understanding. It shows that identity is more than academic work or structured activities. It's about the moments we remember, the experiences that linger with us, even if they're once-in-a-lifetime. Like the city transitioning from day to night, I am constantly changing, constantly becoming. Each experience adds a new layer, each moment contributes to the complex narrative of who I am.
In the end, crafting identity is about embracing these in-between moments. It's about finding freedom in unexpected places, understanding that our true selves exist beyond the expectations others place on us. This view from Tokyo Skytree is a testament to the ongoing journey of self-discovery—a reminder that identity is not a destination, but a continuous exploration.