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Being kind was not taught to us, we were born kind, gentle and compassionate. We were so aware of this energy. Our focus was happiness and a carefree life.  But slowly and gradually we learnt to be dependent on others for happiness and we were taught all that we are today. In the process we always saw life from the eyes of others, be it our parents, our siblings, our teachers and all others in society. We were always taught to follow our elders and teach our youngsters. 

And this started becoming the base of our relationships. And based on others' points of views of what was right and what was wrong, we started judging ourselves and others. We left our happiness behind, the joy of living died and we started struggling to make those points of views right which were never ours. And in this process we are now losing the bond with our loved ones. We are creating separation between ourselves and our families. We are paying a big price for stopping this awareness that was a gift to us from the universe. Anger, irritation, rage and revenge are soring at their highest as we don't know where it came from and what to do with these energies, how to come out of this.

The good news is my dear friends, all this can be healed. You can take baby steps to choose a happy life again and a wonderful world would be created where people would not judge each other and not fight with each other. Judgment is the biggest culprit where gratitude and kindness cannot exist. Honouring other's choices gives them space to breathe and heals them from within. Be kind to yourself and to others. Never try to prove that you fit in with a certain set of people, in fact never try to prove anything to anyone. You are what you are. And when you accept people with all their flaws, they also accept you for being you. How many relationships have you chosen that were not contributing to you but the fear of being alone did not allow you to leave them, 90% of people would rather have a bad relationship than leave them and move on or choose to heal that relationship.

It's all confusing because you are searching for that ideal love and perfect relationship..that never exists. My dear friends fill in gratitude and trust in your relationships and bring back the warmth. 

Live life before it's too late.

How can you use your money to create money??

Are you amazed with this title? If yes, than follow the energy I am sharing with you. People are more interested in how they can spend their money than how they can use their money to create greater possibilities. You only have to ask: " How can I use my money?"

The world will give you many possibilities for creating money if you are willing to look for the possibilities of what creates money. Possibilities show up in your lives, but you don't always take them. 

Unfortunately, if you don't ask a question, you can't receive. You are always looking at how you can create money, You are not looking at what money is going to create for you. If money was going to work for you, what would it look like? 

What would it look if every rupee you spent was going to come back to you tenfolds? What would it be if every time you spent money, something great would occur for you? Be aware of the magic within you and don't forget to acknowledge it. Most people look for the answer - not the infinite possibilities. So start looking at the infinite possibilities! The more happy, joyful, creative, and enthusiastic you are for what can occur, the more the road to success and money you desire will show up. 

Everything is possible if you don't see something as a problem. The moment you define it as a problem, you take away the choice and all possibilities. Most of you would like to suffer life than be enthusiastic about it. You have to commit to your own life too. You cannot have a life that you are not committed to and have enthusiasm for living. 

Instead of thinking and judging something that is not working, be aware of what does work and what can contribute here. 

Always learn and choose to make a demand for what you desire with no ifs and buts attached to it and remember to be that whatever is needed from you, with no points of view attached and see the magic of the universe.

The key element here is having no fixed points of view = allowing the magic to happen.

I have been intensely aware of how much resistance there is against happiness in this world. It seems like everybody is being violent or violently miserable every minute. People are soooooo 'Not Happy' 

Actually They don't want to be happy. The biggest question here is - 

What's the value of fighting happiness? 

And

What's the value of choosing unhappiness?

Unhappiness is the way we eliminate choice from our life.

Happiness can create , generate and heal the Earth. Unhappiness will kill it. And the only way to save is to simply choose it. The only thing that is going to change the outcome of anything on the planet is the happiness that can go beyond the destruction.

If we simply choose happiness, imagine who would we be fighting against. 

We would stop having all stupid points of views for others and stop judging them. Happiness always has a sense of peace with it. It's a sense of expansiveness. We would have greater clarity and so would have more choices. And when you have your own reality, you don't have to buy anybody else's point of view - ever.

We have to come out of our comfort zone and make this planet a better place to live.

Have you ever thought what are failures? Can you ever define it?

Is it that you generate something that doesn't turn out the way you envisioned it? And you call it the biggest mistake of your life. What if every so-called 'mistake' brings you closer to what you are working on creating? And so these mistakes bring you closer to your targets. Never make yourself wrong for any of your mistakes or failures. Learn to respect and honour yourself. Treat yourself as your best friend. Imagine if you spoke rudely to your friend. What would happen? He would try to move away from you. It's the same way. Don't become your own enemy. Always keep encouraging and supporting yourself.

Don't be afraid to choose a different path from others. Change may be difficult and messy, but it's never impossible. Always remember - the Universe has your back. KEEP GOING!

 If you believe you can do it you'll find a way, and if you believe you can't, you'll find an excuse. No school or college teaches you success. To be successful you have to develop the principles of success. You have to believe in it and you have to believe in yourself. Train your subconscious mind to believe in yourself. Success comes to those who dare to begin. Even the greatest was once a beginner. So don't be afraid to take that first step.

Don't be ashamed of your story, it will always inspire others.

THE WORLD IS WAITING FOR THE BRILLIANCE, ONLY YOU CAN BRING...ARE YOU READY FOR THIS LEAP?

Do you ever know that you are in your body as well as outside your body. How would you feel if I tell you that you are everywhere. 

Yes my friends you are everywhere! Only that you have embodied this body with certain set of goals and targets, with certain points of views, with certain rules and regulations, with certain forms and structures.

So the truth is to perform in this reality you have the choice to embody all this and much more. 

But all these points of views, targets and all forms and structures are a trap and our goal is to liberate our being from all this trap. We learn our lessons and we move on. Every 10 seconds we are free to choose liberation, but we are stuck in the form and structure. And we believe that we cannot break through these structures. But the truth is that Time heals if you choose to. 

The question here is - Would an infinite being not choose to heal and liberate itself? Definitely YES! then why not choose that path. The path of spirituality, the path of liberation and the path of self worth. If ever we would be aware of us being an infinite beings, only then we could choose it, my friends. But no one ever told us that. We are always told by this reality that we are mean, vicious, selfish and always wrong. It hurts to hear all that. 

In actuality, you are such infinite being that whatever you choose to do or have, you can have it and the best part is that it takes only 10 seconds to choose anything. Make an Ask and your ask will always be fulfilled no matter what, in whatever way and whatever time it takes for the universe to arrange for it. So be careful what you ask. 

Also how beautiful this world would be if in the process when you learn how everyone like you is an infinite being on this planet and you learn to honour your choices including everyone else's choices, but only if that being is making choices from an infinite point of view. Remember you cannot fake it, it's an energy. And you as an infinite being would always know what would work for you. So my friends use this power of an Infinite Being, by Being You.

Did you know? You create your own body. 

There is a greatness to embodiment. Embodiment is our reality and our bodies fully experience it.

If you are happy, where do you feel it? You feel it in your body. 

If you are frightened, even if you don't know why, how do you feel it? You feel it in your body. You feel the sun, the wind, and the rain through your body. Think how much you would miss if you didn't have your body with you. So always be grateful for it.

Look at all it gives you every day. The pleasure of petting a cat or a dog, the feeling of being loved and loving others, all this can be felt only by your body. Your body goes out to earn money. When your mind accepts any challenge, your body goes through all the problems to accomplish it. So stop judging it. Stop trying to have a perfect body. And perfect according to whom? Perfection is a myth. Every time you judge, you create limitations and jails around your body.

So if you haven't been listening to your body, now is the time to begin.  Have more fun, pamper your body and start to nurture it. Just be in total communion and oneness with your body. Let your body show you what it needs. Your body knows exactly what it requires. It knows when and what it wishes to eat and what it can digest and what it wants to wear, you simply have to ask it. 

When you listen to your body, something different can show up for you. You create a different reality.

According to our belief of our past deeds, we are taught that whatever is served to us in this life we have to live that having no option. What we sow, we reap exactly the same blueprints our seeds have. We have to live our karma. That is true my dear friends. But the good news is that The Universal God has always given us some scope to bring changes in our lives. You can pull apart that plant and sow a new seed. The seeds of your choice. Remember, as we grow, our choices also change and grow. At every point in life we are growing and we are changing, then why do we follow our old beliefs that no longer serves us. 

We think that God is punishing us, but no, we ourselves are punishing us. God does not have so much time to listen to your trauma and drama, he only signs your report cards. You have the choice at any point to change your path, to make life more beautiful. Don't keep feeling bad and stuck non-stop. And don't find wrongness in your life and wrongness in God.

Be more aware of what is required at that particular time. Ask questions, 'What can you do in this situation? Honour yourself always and your amazing body. Your being and your magical body can create way beyond  what you have ever imagined. Acknowledge who you truly are and what you are capable of, it works like magic. Never buy the lies of others about you. The question is 'Do you really want to change?' So many people say they want a new life but they actually are not willing to change. Most people want a different version of the same old. Most people get everything they desire, it is only because they demand for that change and work on getting it and also have faith in the universe that it had their back. They trust the process of change. Change could be uncomfortable at times but trust in the process will lead you to creating your life the way you want to. When you start creating your future you also contribute to our beautiful planet  Earth 🌎

So my friends Never Give Up!

Stand up and keep moving. Keep creating your life.

Did you know? You create your own body. 

There is a greatness to embodiment. Embodiment is our reality and our bodies fully experience it.

If you are happy, where do you feel it? You feel it in your body. 

If you are frightened, even if you don't know why, how do you feel it? You feel it in your body. You feel the sun, the wind, and the rain through your body. Think how much you would miss if you didn't have your body with you. So always be grateful for it.

Look at all it gives you every day. The pleasure of petting a cat or a dog, the feeling of being loved and loving others, all this can be felt only by your body. Your body goes out to earn money. When your mind accepts any challenge, your body goes through all the problems to accomplish it. So stop judging it. Stop trying to have a perfect body. And perfect according to whom? Perfection is a myth. Every time you judge, you create limitations and jails around your body.

So if you haven't been listening to your body, now is the time to begin.  Have more fun, pamper your body and start to nurture it. Just be in total communion and oneness with your body. Let your body show you what it needs. Your body knows exactly what it requires. It knows when and what it wishes to eat and what it can digest and what it wants to wear, you simply have to ask it. 

When you listen to your body, something different can show up for you. You create a different reality.

Our body is a magical being. 

Let's learn some facts about our body. Starting with the Endocrine system. The most important of all.

The endocrine system is a network of glands and organs. The glands and organs produce hormones and release them directly into the blood so they can travel to tissues and organs all over the body.  It uses these hormones to control and coordinate the body’s metabolism, body's energy levels, reproduction, growth and development of our body and response to all injuries, stress and mood throughout the day. So for our body to function properly, a healthy endocrine system is required.

The 7 glands and organs that produce hormones are:

Hypothalamus, Pituitary Gland, Pineal Gland, Thyroid Gland and Parathyroid Gland, Adrenal Gland, Pancreas, Ovaries and Testis.

The hypothalamus gland and the pituitary gland are the master glands in our brain and they control many other glands. Hormones released by the hypothalamus helps to control the pituitary gland which in turn controls other glands such as thyroid, adrenal, ovaries and testes. 

Some hormones that the hypothalamus releases are growth hormones, oxytocin, vasopressin, dopamine and many others.

Some hormones that the pituitary gland releases are growth hormones, thyroid stimulating hormones (TSH), follicles stimulating hormones (FSH), prolactin and many others. The pituitary also stores and releases some of the hormones made by the hypothalamus like oxytocin and vasopressin.

Oxytocin is released when we hug or kiss a person, also elevates the moods and helps in reproduction.

Vasopressin promotes the water reabsorption in the renal tubule of kidneys. Less of vasopressin may lead your kidneys to excrete too much water causing frequent urination.

We will learn more about our interesting body in my next month article.

Judgements are where people create their lives from. It is from this point, they form conclusions about what is right and what is wrong and what is good and what is bad and so act accordingly.

These judgements take you to other people's minds and you start seeing things and yourself from their eyes and their thought processes. You act accordingly and so, you get trapped in their reality. You immerse yourself so much into other people's judgements and thoughts that you completely forget what originally were your likings and dislikings. You go into the wrongness of you and get influenced by their patterns of thoughts and beliefs. You start to crush your creativity, and cut down your power of knowing and trusting yourself. You also start finding wrongness in yourself and developing low self-esteem. You buy this reality and think this is the only way to live. 

But my dear friends the good news is that you can come out of this trap also.

If you feel suffocated in any situation, STOP.

Step 1: Ask, Is this my thought process or am I buying into someone else's story?

Step 2: Make a choice to leave this stuckness.

When we make choices, we can move ahead smoothly.

Step 3: Be more aware of all things happening around you. The universe will always guide you.

Step 4: Also be in an 'Interesting Point Of View' for every thought and feeling.

When all the points of views in the world are an 'Interesting Point of View' then the significance of judgements are taken away. And life is easy to live.

Our thoughts create our reality. Whatever point of view we are carrying in our subconscious, reflects on our living. We are so much illusioned by our thoughts at times that we try to defend all our points of views may be right or wrong, good or bad all the time. Many times this habit of proving our rightness leads us to massive losses. We become so blind in proving ourselves right that we give up our peace of mind and our freedom.

So we have to learn to choose in this process, whether to be 'Right' or to be 'Free'. This act of choosing to be free and having our peace of mind is a muscle to be built. It happens slowly every day, bit by bit. Always be very truthful to yourself.

As you choose yourself, greater things begin to show up in your life. Proving yourself to others is like becoming their slaves. We will always desire and need their approval. We will always see things from their eyes. Also this way we are not able to see the whole truth. 

Ask yourself - Are you making yourself happy by choosing and loving yourself? Or are you trying to please and make other people happy? If you don't have the joy of youself in your life, you don't actually have a life. Nobody will ever be happy with you, if you are not happy with yourself. Remember every person is always right according to themselves in their eyes, so what's the point in proving your rightness to others? 

We can always inspire people by out-creating them. When we are creating our lives with joy and success, the people around us are inspired by our phenomenal performance. You can assist them in creating their lives way more easily than you could ever have imagined. Out-create what they're doing and watch them say, "I've got to have that more."

Out-creating somebody's need to hold things in place is the gift you are.

You are phenomenal when you are BEING YOU.

So stop justifying your rightness and be in allowance of everything. The universe is always with you, helping you. You just BE YOURSELF.

Are you always trying to prove yourself to others? Do you feel people around you are always trying to make you wrong? Are you always put down, no matter what? Are you always wrong in their eyes, and small in their universe? Do you shrink yourself even more than before? Do you try to hide yourself even more?

This article will help you to deal with all this. You don't have to shrink yourself anymore my dear friend. You are an infinite being. You can change your reality by only changing your belief system. If you believe that people don't value you, then you'll attract people who don't value you. And to prove your point of view right you will always need people to counterattack you and put you down. So you'll keep attracting them into your life so that you can prove your point of view, that people don't value you. So remember always - YOUR THOUGHTS CREATE YOUR REALITY.  

And so whatever you think and believe, the same you are creating for yourself. So beware of your thoughts. You could be dangerous to yourself. You are the biggest magical creator in your life. Good, bad or ugly, you can create everything and anything. You are the Magic you need to acknowledge.

Just BE YOU, my friend, just be whatever you are, no compromises, no agendas, no giving up yourself, no shrinking up, no proving yourself. Just show to the world your potential, what a gift you are to the world. We all are special gifts on this planet, unravel it and see yourself bloom. Many things could occur that you haven't even considered. Many possibilities waiting to be tapped. You could be the lucky charm. 

Be generous to yourself.

Today we will talk on two topics one is happiness and the other is choice. Do you believe that happiness comes from some where outside of us or is it some event that would make us happy, or is it some thing, some relationship, some achievement, some goals that would make us happy in life? Or do you believe that it is the responsibility of the people living around us to make us happy? No my dear friends we are completely wrong here. Even if these sources of joy would make us happy, it would often be so fleeting and temporary that it would vanish in a day or two or in some moments. And it is not somebody else's duty to keep this happiness. It is our own duty to keep ourself happy. 

Happiness is completely a choice. It's up to us to choose happiness. If you choose to be happy you will completely be happy, No matter what.

Perfectionism can be a significant obstacle to happiness. Expecting too much in life from ourselves and others can also create a constant state of dissatisfaction and unhappiness. Perfection is a disease, to the core that makes you believe that even death should be so perfect, so you will be judging everything that is happening around you. And will always be unhappy for not being able to meet your own norms. Instead of striving for perfection, embrace imperfection and let go of rigid expectations.

If you let things loose, if you let go of perfectionism, if you do not judge too much about the polarities of rightness or wrongness, if you simply just choose happiness, your life will become too easy. And I think that is why we don't choose it because we don't believe in easy things. 

Happiness is so subtle and so light, we just have to choose to be happy. And it's contagious spreading happiness and joy to make the people around you. It also increases your receiving. Your health improves, your wealth improves, your creativity improves and your relationships improve.

Now there is a thing called choice. A choice comes from within. Say if you are suffering in a relationship then it is your choice to stay in that relationship or to come out of it, or to work on that relationship to resolve the issue. If you do not choose to work on that relationship issue, then remember, you are choosing to stay in that suffering and you have no right to blame others. Choices can make your life or break your life. You have to choose to survive or to thrive. Once you choose anything, then the universe works in that area to help to achieve that. So choose wisely. God only gives you what you have asked for. We all are magical beings on this planet. We can achieve whatever we want, only if we choose it. You just have to ask and you'll always get what you have asked for. Later or sooner accordingly. 

So what are you waiting for my friends. 

Go ahead and choose happiness and stay-happy-go-lucky.

Have you ever found yourself stuck in any situation and not able to come out of it? Feeling helpless, feeling choiceless, feeling stuck? Have you ever tried so hard to solve a problem but always messed up, by landing in the same situation back? I know we all have faced such situations and you very well know the energy of what I am talking about. Have you ever thought about the reason for such a situation to not get resolved? 

Do you want when I face such situations what I do? I sit with that problem face to face and try to dig deeper and deeper to know where and what went wrong. I analyze everybody's role in it minutely and see what changes I can bring to it, also everybody's points of view are to be taken into consideration. But do you know that I work on what I can change for myself, and not what I change for others.  

As we all know, we can change only ourselves and not anyone else, so I dig deeper to know what are my points of view due to which I am facing this issue, and when I try to change that I see the results.

So friends, remember that it's always about us. It was never about others. This does not mean you do not have to care about others. You can always include everyone in your universe, but by keeping then at a comfortable distance. Problems show up only when we make others so important in our life that we keep them before us and cling on them so hard that we push them away. When we make others so significant in our life, be it anyone in our relationship, or our kids, or our parents, or our spouses, or our siblings, or our friends, job, money, business, any event or anything in our life, when we make it so relevant or important than us,then it is always about them only and not about us. We are dependent on them for many reasons and we are looking to seek their validation all the time and by doing that we may unknowingly move them away from us. Slowly, we start to hardly exist in their universe. We divorce ourselves for them. We behave according to others likes and dislikes. We become their followers to fit into their universe. And we try so hard to fit in, that we lose ourselves in this process. Have you ever divorced yourself for others? Ask yourself.

We are more into competition with each other rather than being a contribution in each other's life and living. Our relationship should be a 'creationship' where two people can exist simultaneously and create their lives happily. This can happen only when you love and trust yourself first. When you respect yourself, you give a signal to others that they cannot ill-treat you. They have to give you the same respect you have for yourself or else they don't deserve you. To get that honor from others, you have to honour yourself first. The people who have the best relationships actually have their own lives. They are not looking for validation from anyone and neither are they looking for someone else to complete them. They know they are complete in themselves in their own life. They are looking forward and willing to have the other person as an addition in their life and living and a contribution; not a replacement for it or to fill any gap.

Do you know, very interestingly one aspect of trust is trusting yourself. To have trust in you, you have to be willing to know that you know and to know that, you will choose what's best for yourself. When you are resisting and reacting or aligning and agreeing to any point of view or any situation, you are judging it as something wrong or something that has to be avoided or to run away from that situation. In all these cases you are not being in allowance and your awareness cannot guide you. When you are always in an interesting point of you, you will have more ease and more freedom in your life and you will have less judgements and also you don't have to defend any point of view; not yours and not even others. This is the basis of creating a beautiful relationship.

Your true power and potency lies within you. Are you willing to choose intimacy with yourself? And when you are intimate with yourself, you will not choose anyone who will diminish your light or who will limit you. You will actually choose someone who is a contribution to your life and also you will no longer believe that you need someone to complete you.

So what is stopping you from being intimate with yourself, being vulnerable with yourself, trusting yourself, having gratitude for yourself and honouring yourself and being yourself. Believe me, the world needs more of such people.

In this last month of the year running away let's catch up with ourselves and see how truthful we are with our own thoughts, feelings, words, emotions and actions.

When some one asks you 'How are you doing?' how many times do you feel the world inside you is splitting apart and you want to tell them that you are not doing good, but something stops you...and you end up saying  'I am doing good thankyou' and your heart aches in saying so. 

Many times in life we meet people who do not mean what they say and do but when we are listening to them we know that they are not congruent with their words, they are not telling the truth or they do not mean what they say. Do you feel such people can be contributive to us in our life. No, I don't think so. And we hardly believe such people and we hardly approach to such people for anything in life. Friends, everything is in the form of an energy and so we can sense it right on the face. We can sense the real emotions and the fake once. When a person is full of judgements and his life is surrounded by all fixed points of view about himself or others such a person will always have difficulty in showing his true self. And he can not be vulnerable to even his own self. 

Sharing a small incident from a small village, So there was a man who climbed a tall tree to pluck a delicious fruit and the tree had a single fruit left and after a great difficulty, the man could reach the fruit only to know that it had been half eaten by some birds. Now disheartened, the man did not know what to do and say to his friends who were watching from the ground. One of his friends felt something strange seeing the unstable branch he was on and asked him if he wanted any help to come down, but the man felt ashamed and thought that his friends would judge him and laugh at him and so he said he doesn't need any help and started coming down, only to have a great fall. 

The lesson here is my friends we can always choose to change at any moment and take help if need be we must choose that change rather then giving ourselves pain and sorrow by struggling and proving to be always right. When we are in allowance of the choice to change only then our life can show us great opportunities and by not going into the conclusion of right or wrong decision neither good or bad or thinking someone might think less of you and just by being in allowance of what the time requires we can choose to have congruency in our life. And when we are truthful with our own self, we begin to free ourselves from all the judgements that we have been holding on to limit ourselves. 

Many a times we can perceive the energy of the future which we cannot even see but knowing that energy and being willing to take all the actions needed to be taken right now to manifest that future is congruency.

When our thoughts, words and actions are congruent  with each other we can see the future we desire.

Being truthful in life is such a light thing with our self and others. Always  be vulnerable and then see how much trust you will develop for yourself, and believe me the more you trust you, the more goodness your life will show you.

Have you ever thought how much other people love you? Every time your parents took care of you when you were small they loved you and you also loved them for that, but as you grew up they still loved you and they still take care of you but sometimes they forget and go beyond their limits to take care of you. And this way they cross the line of caring to controlling. There is a very fine line between care and control. They forget that not leaving you on your own to learn things will lead you to more trouble. 

Most parents think that parenting is about ownership and control. They believe they have total control of their children's life and that this control is their responsibility for the children to be rooted, grounded and to be on the right path. But the truth is that your kids are not limited, normal, average or predictable. They are magic and their magic is there infinite beingness. And they believe  in their magic. But would you be willing to claim, own and acknowledge that your children have magic within them?

My dear friends in any relationship do not try to control the other person and do not judge them. This is the only reason for the gaps between two people. The more we judge or control each other the more gap we create.

The greatest power is the ability to choose, change and transform. As the earth is evolving so is our society and the human beings living on planet earth are evolving. When we care we love each other and that is kindness in a relationship. But we don't even realize when slowly this caring changes into controlling. When we look forward to a healthier relationship, be it with ourselves or with others, we have to learn to be kind, kind with ourselves and kind with others. Kindness shows up when we are happy, and when we are happy we create our lives and not destroy it.

When we have a lot of fixed points of views we see everything in life from those points of views and nothing other than that, which matches it, can come into our consideration . And that is the point where we stop living our lives. We can destroy ourselves to keep that point of view rather than giving it up if it doesn't work in our favour. So caring for ourself and for others is a kinder thing. And everytime you care for yourself you show others that they can also choose the same.

Generosity of spirit is the sense that whatever you get or whatever you have is a gift to you and that the universe is doing its best for you.

So my dear friends be kind and caring and taking care of not controlling.