So you've crossed off all the tasks on your work to-do list. Everything's done - you're ready to relax!
You stretch your arms, close your eyes, and think of all the ways you're going to spend your downtime.
But instead of kicking back and feeling restful, you just end up tense and antsy.
If this has ever happened to you, don't worry! A lot of us don't really know how to relax after a stressful day at work. Even when we're all tired out, we often find it's difficult to turn our work brains off.
Dropping all the stress and worries of the day can be hard, but not unimaginable! To help you rest and de-stress, we've put together 5 handy tips on how to relax after work.
Remember that relaxation is vital to a superb and healthy lifestyle. Keep reading to learn how to kick back and get some much-deserved R&R!
Create a dedicated work space
Whether you work from home or go to an office, chances are you'll have tasks to carry out at home.
Yes, it's a blast to work in our jammies! But the usual downside is that it becomes harder to separate our personal lives from our work lives. This is because our frame of mind depends on our setting.
Let's say you spend the day working on your couch. Since it's generally a spot for relaxing, your mind may work at a sluggish pace. So you might find it tricky to concentrate on your tasks.
Later at night, your family heads to the living room to bond and play a board game. Now that you've spent the day working on the couch, you may find stress about work still running through your head.
This can have a negative impact on your performance, family time, and emotional health!
What you can do to prevent this is to create a work space at home where you will spend all your work hours. This includes designing and organizing it to let you work with more efficiency and creativity! You can even put in indoor plants to freshen and spruce up your desk.
Don't panic if you don't have a lot of space - you don't need a huge home office! All you need is a tiny working area with a desk, your laptop or PC, stationery, and other work needs.
Put your phone down
Many of us unwind by mindlessly scrolling through social media. We get it. It does turn your brain off!
But with the never-ending alerts, continuous barrage of bad news, and countless toxic debates - it can be a huge stressor!
What you can do to reduce your phone time is to install helpful apps that monitor and restrict your time online (ironic, right?). Here are a few apps to help you curb your phone time to a proper amount:
Moment - This app lets you set daily limits for your phone use. When you exceed your limit, it floods your phone with annoying alerts until you put your phone down. Even better, you can set it up for the entire family!
SPACE - Want a more fun way to lessen your phone time? SPACE features a customized program that lets you set particular goals for your phone usage. When you reach your goals, you get to design an eye-popping galaxy of stars on the app!
OffTime - Our phones aren't simply for games or recreation. We also need it for work or connecting with loved ones. OffTime lets you stay on the apps that you need at certain times and keeps you off of distracting ones.
Get into relaxing hobbies
Did you know that not all stress is harmful? Also referred to as "eustress", good stress comes from doing things that make us feel motivated, fulfilled, and vigorous. It even helps relieve negative stress!
Whether you get "good stress" from work or not, it's always good to pick up hobbies that are separate from your work. This keeps you well-rounded and ready for new things!
Plus, it takes out the pressure of doing something perfectly. You get to do things solely because you enjoy them!
Setting aside time for your hobbies can improve your mood and pleasure. Here are a few of the best stress-busting activities you might want to try:
Gardening - Keeping a flourishing garden is a recognized stress reliever! It boosts your physical and mental health by pushing you to get moving and connect with nature.
DIY - It's awesome to learn how to upcycle old things, make practical items from scratch, and do small repairs. Not only does it feel satisfying, but it also gets your hands working and even saves funds!
Arts & Crafts - You're never too old to explore your creative side! Drawing, coloring, painting, and doing crafts can be rejuvenating and cathartic, especially if you've had a taxing day.
Cooking/ Baking - Ditch the microwave meals and uncover a passion for making food! It's a proven stress reliever that's used for behavior therapy. Best of all, it encourages healthier eating!
Camping - Fresh air and nature can melt all your worries away and revitalize your body and mind! You can also try other outdoor adventures like hiking and fishing or even camp out at home.
Be in the moment
We hear this all the time - but what exactly does it mean?
Being in the moment is about living our lives in the present. It means we set our thoughts, emotions, and actions towards what's happening right now.
If you find it tough to relax after work, that's likely because you spend emotional and mental energy on past or future troubles. It may be that your mind is full of worries, anxieties, and fears.
What happens is that you lose out on relaxing and enjoying your downtime to the fullest!
It's true that being in the moment is easier said than done. But here are a few simple things you can do to be more present:
Set a routine - Having a day-to-day schedule helps keep you on track for the day! So once you get to your down time, you know for sure that you've done all you can within your work hours and remind yourself that it's time to relax.
Write in a journal - Writing about how you felt through the day helps you release tension. Even better, it makes you more aware of your stressors!
Practice meditation -Trust us, this works! Meditation soothes you and rids your mind of negative thoughts and emotions. Now it may take a while to go into, but you can start with a few simple meditation exercises!
Start heartfelt talks - It's always a load off the mind to talk to people closest to our hearts. Whether it's light chats or deep discussions, make sure you give them 100% of your attention.
Treat yourself
Often, the simplest way is the perfect way to go! Doing your favorite activities is the easiest way to relax and decompress.
So go ahead, spoil yourself! Take a long bath. Indulge in your favorite dessert. Surround yourself with calming blooms. Pop your earphones in and jam to your favorite tracks.
Sing karaoke with your friends or family. Read a great book. Play your favorite games. Cuddle with your kids or your pets.
Whatever you enjoy doing, go ahead and do it! The important thing is to treat yourself for working hard and doing your best throughout the day.
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