Christian Life Coach MD
Experienced UK and NZ medical doctor in Psychiatry with a professional background in coaching, counselling, and teaching:
An MD health professional with training in ACT, CBT, MBT, Psycho-dynamic psychotherapy - both in Child and Adolescent and Adult Mental Health
Medical Dr. (MD) in Psychiatry (Psychodynamic Psychotherapy style) working as an International Christian Coach,
and if necessary, involving Rev Dewald, Senior Pastor. Church Missions itinerant speaker & Senior Pastor in New Zealand, with an Apostolic gift with extensive international experience in missions and church- planting: A spearhead innovator of Christian Counselling and Christian business models. Pastor Dewald is available for speaking engagements anywhere in the world .
Empowering Influencers in God’s Kingdom (Ministry, Organisational and Personal Conflict Resolution). Prophetically - driven. Solution-focused.
By appointment - International availability - Discretion ensured. Confidentiality assured.
Leadership-mentoring is a strong passion.
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This is a super book for all kinds of mental health or psychological issues affecting Christian influencers and leaders...an interesting read right here, for those in ministry!
Link for full page reading: https://books.google.co.nz/books?id=OLfgbSAPrS0C&lpg=PA81&ots=dUHI2KM5pV&dq=splitting%20personality%20disorder%20churches&pg=PA81#v=onepage&q=splitting%20personality%20disorder%20churches&f=true
Transferential Distortions in Pastoral Relationships
Healthy Leaders lead to Healthy People in your organisation!
Pastors and church leaders - please read this chapter link shown below...for a serving couple in leadership (husband and wife), please remember you serve as one, do not allow room for one of you to be dismissed, put aside or elevated one above another in your relations with church members - encourage eachother and show honor, respect and togetherness openly. Start with your body language. Do not diminish your oneness, to subconsciously please and motivate - in an unhealthy way - another who has subconscious motives i.e. Object Relations - relationships felt, or the emotional energy directed, by the self or ego towards a chosen object.
"object relations theory aims to give an account of the world of the infant in the very earliest months of life"
You yourself, can make the mentee or counsellee your object relational person.
The object relations theory "suggests that the way people relate to others and situations in their adult lives is shaped by family experiences during infancy. For example, an adult who experienced neglect or abuse in infancy would expect similar behavior from others who remind them of the neglectful or abusive parent from their past". ..and could make expectations of them in an unhealthy way.
Unless we constantly reflect on ourselves and how others relate to us, we can end up in toxic relationships and interactions which further damages ourselves and others. This is not love...as it feeds into unhealthy behaviours and motives - conscious or subconscious building up further, the damaged areas of a person.
God is LOVE and HE is able to Heal - our part to play is to seek His Wisdom and the people anointed to help you on your journey of guided discovery, restoration and becoming who He created you or another person to be...coming out of toxic relationships into a glorious destiny!
I will be putting up more information on Spiritual Maturity and Object Relations Development ...watch this space
Remember to maintain healthy external and internal boundaries (have you read this book?)
by Henry Cloud (Author), John Townsend (Author)
Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle.