A birth doula provides continuous emotional, physical, and informational support to a birthing person and their partner before, during, and immediately after childbirth. The main goal is to help ensure the most positive and empowering birth experience possible, whatever that looks like for your family.
Here’s what a birth doula typically does:
Meets with the family during pregnancy to discuss birth preferences, expectations, and fears. As well as create a birth plan that best fits your values and wishes
Provides education about the stages of labor, comfort techniques, and common procedures
Will offer resources and referrals
Helps both the birthing person and partner feel prepared and confident
Offers continuous presence within the birthing space and/or when laboring at home.
Provides comfort measures, such as:
Breathing techniques
Massage or counterpressure
Position changes and movement suggestions
Visualization and relaxation tools
Helps facilitate communication with medical staff, ensuring you understand options and decisions
Encourages and supports partners/support people, by showing them how to participate in a way that feels helpful for the birthing person. Focuses on the 5 love languages to help best guide both the birthing person and the partner/support person
Creates a calm, supportive atmosphere, whether at home, birth center, or hospital
Assists with initial bonding and feeding (breastfeeding or bottle-feeding support).
Helps parents process the birth experience emotionally
Will stay 1-2 hours after the birth
A postpartum doula provides practical, emotional, and educational support to new parents after the birth of a baby. Their goal is to help families adjust smoothly to life with a newborn and to ensure both the birthing parent and baby are thriving.
Here’s a breakdown of what a postpartum doula typically does:
Helps with diapering, bathing, soothing, swaddling, sleep routines
Teaches parents about infant cues, development, and sleep patterns
Provide overnight and day care so parents can rest
Assists with physical recovery from childbirth (C-section or vaginal)
Offers breastfeeding or bottle-feeding support (positioning, latch help, feeding schedules)
Encourages self-care and rest
Supports postpartum depression and anxiety by providing resources and making them feel seen
Prepares meals or snacks for the family
Helps with baby laundry and tidying up
Keeps household tasks manageable so parents can focus on bonding and recovery
Provides nonjudgmental listening and reassurance during the adjustment period of parenthood
Shares evidence-based information and resources about baby care, recovery, mood disorders, and parenting choices
Supports partners and other family members in adapting to their new roles
Does not perform medical tasks (no cervical checks, fetal monitoring, or medical decisions).
Does not replace your partner or your care team.
Does not speak for you, but help you advocate for yourself.