Brogan Pratt & Haley Twaites
March 29th, 2019
March 29th, 2019
They say in life that opposites attract, unless we're talking about math, then opposites don't attract so well. Thankfully, relationships are all about chemistry, not mathematics, so opposite ends of the spectrum are invariably drawn towards each-other. I have a large tuft of hair sprouting from my jaw, while Haley, thankfully, does not. Haley is able to sleep anywhere, a skill I have yet to learn; from curling up on an airplane seat, to basking in the sunshine on a beach, Haley has the instinctual ability to relax and kick back. I have a tendency of driving forward for so long that I forgo sleep some nights. Haley is a baker, while I am a cook. I am heavy footed down a hallway, you'll hear me coming from a mile away (the fact that I'm singing "fee-fi- fo- fum probably doesn't help) whereas she'll sneak up on you like a mouse (if she can contain her constant giggling). Haley and I are the perfect compliment to one another, and it's time we sealed that bond.
Haley and I (Brogan) have been pulled together since we met in our teacher training at SFU in the spring of 2016. In May, 2016, we were both well into our programs and headed off to Fort Langley for our first course in environmental education. We were placed in the same group for coursework that first weekend and we've been hitting it off ever since. As teachers, we are always searching for new adventures and for someone to share that time with, thankfully, we compliment each other and face adventures together in stride. We hope that you can join us on our newest leg of life's journey for us together.
Haley is an incredible girl. It's not often that you'll meet someone as positive as her, and she's always ready and prepared to cheer you up. I can confidently say (or in this case, write) that I've never met a person more genuine or caring than her; that's one of the things that drew me in to her from the start (aside from her giant smile).
It has been quite the ride getting to know Haley, and from the start things moved quickly for us. Every time we would meet, I'd find myself enjoying myself and being able to slow down to take in the moment. If you spend any amount of time with me you'll find that I do not have an "off switch"; I'm always running and moving towards some goal or destination. Being with Haley is like a brand new world, one that moves slower and allows me to focus on the moment (even for however brief before I've picked her up and we're back off sailing towards another adventure).
Brogan makes me smile and laugh every day. It's safe to say that there is never a dull moment when we are together. The endless spontaneous adventures, and crazy excursions helped us get to know each other in a fun and crazy kind of way. He helps me out of my comfort zones to experience things I would never try on my own. Okay let’s face it, it’s more like he pushes me off the deep end of my comfort zone sometimes, but he’s always there by my side to do it too. Brogan is the type of person to always find the time to help others. He might be busy when you ask, but he will pull up the calendar on his phone and pencil you in for the next time he's free.
Brogan and I have been together through a lot of firsts. Our first classrooms, first time to Quebec, first time over seas, our first apartment, accepting our first international teaching contract, first (and only) marriage, and I’m sure there will be many more firsts as we begin our lives together. I am so lucky to be able to experience all of these firsts with Brogan by my side.
The ring is an extra special addition for both of us. Over the winter break, I learned a new skill; jewelry making. You can see my final product/process of a necklace down below. Essentially, I learned how to cast silver/gold with a clay pot and an old jerry-rigged electric cooking element.
What she didn't know when I made her necklace was that it was really a trial run to see if I was able to make a ring or not. Thankfully, it worked, and her ring turned out beautifully. It is hand carved and cast by myself.
Not only that, but the gold that was used to make the ring was from my mother's engagement ring that my father also designed/cast for her. I had no idea prior to my decision to make her ring that my father had also forged my mother's ring, so the gold inside Haley's ring also tells a further special story.
Haley and I met at SFU during our Teacher training program (PDP) over the spring/summer of 2016. As both avid outdoorsmen (and woman), (outdoorspeople?), we both naturally gravitated towards the "Environmental Education" course. In 6 weeks, we spent each full weekend at a new location around the lower mainland, learning about our local environment and how to best teach children in these areas.
Since it was where we first met, I decided that it was fitting to send her on a scavenger hunt across the lower mainland to all of the places that we met first. At each location, there was a person standing there with a clue of where she would need to drive to next. In total, she was driving for over 3 hours (a note: she said after the 2nd clue, she either hoped I'd be proposing, or would be pissed if I was just sitting there waiting with lunch when she eventually showed up). She started off at our house, and then proceeded to drive to:
When she finally made it to the sea taxi dock, both of our hearts were racing. I had been getting text updates from all of the people helping send out notes so I knew where she was. She barreled straight into me at the dock, already in tears. If you can see in the video, I actually had to push her away from me to be able to get down on one knee.
We've decided to host our wedding and our reception at the gorgeous Simon Fraser University's Diamond Alumni Centre. As former alumnus of SFU, we found this location to be a fitting tribute to our time together thus-far. On March 29th at 5:30pm, join us in celebration and send us off on a new chapter in our lives.
First things first — how to get to the Diamond Alumni Center! It's up on top of Burnaby Mountain on the North end of SFU.
For those driving, the address is 8888, University Dr E, Burnaby, BC V3H 1J2. Parking is free at the North Lot for wedding guests.
Maid of Honour
Maya and I have been best friends since grade 5! Until last summer we lived down the street from each other, and we were constantly together. We were in most of the same classes in elementary school, high school, and even some university classes when she transferred schools in my last year. A typical Maya & Haley day can be anything from grocery shopping, to runs (that turn into walks), starbucks or ice cream, or anything Grey’s Anatomy. We have been by each others sides through so many of life’s crazy adventures, and we will continue to do so for many years to come.
Bridesmaid
Jessie and I met at Douglas College where we had many of the same classes together. Jessie and I were fortunate enough to represent our school at a conference in Ontario where we became even closer friends. Jessie lives in Creston, BC with her husband and their two fur babies. Jessie and I have a lot in common. We are both short, we are always cold, we like wine and country music, we are both teachers (she is just finishing up her teaching program), and we make up two thirds of our trio.
Bridesmaid
Vanessa and I also met at Douglas College and she makes our trio whole! Vanessa recently came back home from France where her husband played professional volleyball. Vanessa and I have had some pretty funny adventures. Paddle boarding while the tide keeps rising, late night food runs during Kin Games, and driving across the city during one of our class breaks to get Vanessa scrambled eggs. We may not live in the same city or country at times, but we are always there to cheer each other up, or give some helpful advice.
Bridesmaid
Kim and I met at Gibson Elementary when I started working in my first classroom, and since then we have definitely been the crazy duo in our hallway. You will often hear us yelling down the hallway to each other when we need something, or if there is food in the staffroom. We are the ‘halfies’, or the ‘cousins’ as some of our co-workers call us once we found out that our grandparents know each other. I am pretty sure our students think we are crazy, but that is part of the job.
Best Man
Bestman indeed! Jacob is an incredible dude, we've been friends since early highschool. I still remember how he first introduced himself to me. He simply came up to me, asked, "Is your dad Mr. Pratt?" and the rest followed suit. Our fathers' had been teachers and coworkers together at Pitt Meadows Secondary School and Jacob recognized my last name enough to make that connection. Jacob's resume reads like something out of a movie: an aspiring doctor, world class decathlete, mental health hotline volunteer, and overall great man. I'm proud to call him a friend.
Groomsman
Nick and I have been friends for a short while, but him and I connected quickly from our first meeting. We met at a university party that Jono had thrown. Jono introduced us to one another and said that we would be friends instantly; he was right. Within seconds of talking, Nick and I started chatting about a stoic philosopher we are both huge fans of and we've been friends ever since. Nick is a charismatic man who's always willing to lend an ear or a hand to a person in need, and I'm thankful to have been able to meet him.
Groomsman
Jono and I met in the gym at SFU in a spur of the moment conversation over some much needed bicep curls. We started talking about workout theory, and overtime we became on and off workout partners. Jono is a passionate man with a lot of drive. He is dedicated to environmental protection, consumed by entrepreneurial projects, and is the best looking ginger alive.
Groomsman
Roemmich and I met down in San Francisco in one of the craziest weekends of my life. He had just finished a road trip that took a wrong turn and I had just arrived from my flight. We sat beside eachother and both proclaimed what BS this conference was and why we were sitting here listening to some dude drone on before things got started. He has since become a great friend, previous roommate, and is always available for a cigar, chat, and backyard philosophical talk.