Sexual Disorders in Men and Women

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As we know, whether married or single, people face challenges in their sexual lives. Depending on an individual's nature and physical constitution, sexual-related issues can vary from person to person. However, most sexual problems in individuals stem from disruptions in their sexual response cycle. Hello friends, and welcome to Dr. Sunil Dubey Ayurveda (Dubey Clinic). We have brought you a new and important session addressing men and all their sexual health-related issues. In this session, we will learn when men should consult a sexologist to ensure they receive better and appropriate treatment. How Ayurveda plays a major role in resolving most sexual problems naturally.

Renowned across Asia and a gold medalist, Ayurvedacharya Dr. Sunil Dubey—considered the best sexologist in Patna, Bihar—provides comprehensive treatment and medication for all types of sexual health issues. Drawing on his extensive clinical experience and treatment, he treats those people who visit the Dubey Clinic to resolve their sexual health problems. In addition to this clinical service, he also assists those who cannot visit the clinic but wish to receive advice, treatment, and safe medications via phone or WhatsApp. Although a digital presence facilitates communication, it is merely a temporary medium for addressing health-related issues. Those who have been grappling with sexual health issues for some time and are seeking only advice can connect with this online platform; however, to receive a fully scientific and safe treatment, an initial in-person visit to the clinic is essential.

Sexual disorders based on the sexual response cycle:

Let us look at the types of sexual disorders in men for which individuals seek help for sexual health professionals.

Sexual Desire Disorder (SDD or HSDD)

Desire is the first step toward obtaining or doing anything. In the context of sexology, sexual desire always motivates an individual to engage in this activity. When a person desires this natural process, their health, senses, and sexual functions become active. It is also the first stage of the sexual response cycle.

If physical, mental, or medical issues adversely affect one's health, it directly impacts one's sexual life, with sexual desire being the first aspect to be affected. In such situations, an individual may experience a lack of desire or interest in sexual activity, or even a complete loss thereof. In the field of sexology, a low libido or a lack of interest in sexual activity is classified as 'Sexual Desire Disorder.' People often consult sexologists for issues such as low libido, reduced sexual desire, or a complete absence of desire.

Sexual Arousal Disorder (SAD or FSIAD)

Arousal is the second stage of the sexual response cycle, involving changes in a person's sexual organs. In men, this manifests as an erection (hardening of the penile), while in women, it is referred to as sexual arousal or stimulation or plateau. When sexual desire focuses on this activity, men experience a spontaneous erection in preparation for sexual activity. Since this is a key aspect of male sexual activity, the changes involved are clearly visible.

An erection is a highly complex physiological process in which optimal blood circulation, general health, tissue integrity, hormonal balance, and neurological health play crucial roles, with the brain serving as the central control point. It is true that after the age of 30, a 1% annual decline in testosterone levels can impact a person's sexual arousal. However, sexual desire remains at the same level. Dr. Sunil Dubey, the best sexologist in Bihar (India), states that sexual arousal disorder can be an indicator of various underlying conditions directly linked to health—encompassing physical, mental, and lifestyle factors. In this condition, both men and women may face challenges in their sexual lives and experience difficulty becoming aroused or reaching the peak level of arousal (plateau).

Since this condition in men is directly linked to erections, medical science defines the persistent inability to achieve or maintain an erection during sexual activity as 'Erectile Dysfunction' (ED). Depending on the nature and underlying causes, it can affect an individual in various ways—stemming from vascular (blood vessel-related), neurogenic (nervous system-related), psychogenic (psychological), hormonal, medication-induced, or lifestyle-related issues. While ED typically affects men over the age of 40, younger men are also facing this type of sexual problem due to their medical conditions and poor lifestyles today.

Sexual arousal disorder in women is linked to both desire and arousal. It is not just the woman herself who may be responsible for this condition; her male partner can also play a role. Factors such as a lack of knowledge about female sexuality, disparities in sexual desire, relationship issues, mental health, and fatigue contribute significantly to this disorder. However, the condition is treatable; adopting a holistic approach and making lifestyle changes can help women manage this disorder related to sexual desire or arousal. In this situation, the woman can consult a sexologist for couple therapy to understand her underlying issues and the psychological or relationship-related factors involved.

Sexual Orgasm Disorder:

Orgasm is the third stage of sexuality, in which both desire and arousal work together. It is the third phase of sexual activity that brings satisfaction, with both the man and the woman reaching orgasm. From the perspective of sexology, orgasm acts as a powerful booster that helps forge a strong bond between the man and the woman.

Sexual orgasm disorder—also known as orgasmic dysfunction or anorgasmia—can be a challenging condition for an individual. In this state, a person desires to prolong sexual activity and engages in it, yet is unable to achieve orgasm due to psychological or physical factors, or a combination of both. Among men, one of the most common forms of sexual dysfunction is what is typically known as 'premature ejaculation.' In everyday language, this sexual issue is referred to by various names, such as early discharge, timing issues, lack of control, inability to control ejaculation, and so on. According to reports and clinical surveys related to sexual health, approximately 40–45% of people in India face difficulties in their sexual lives due to issues related to achieving orgasm (orgasmic dysfunction). In this context, most men report having no control over ejaculation, and this lack of control prevents them from lasting longer in bed. However, this condition can be treated, and a qualified, experienced Ayurvedic sexologist can help treat this sexual issue.

Orgasm-related issues (orgasmic dysfunction) are the most common sexual problem among women, yet they often do not discuss this openly with their partners. Due to various social, familial, and economic responsibilities, they frequently prioritize other aspects of their lives over sexuality. However, some women do speak up about this issue, with various life factors playing a significant role. The most common causes include aging, lifestyle-related issues, medical conditions, obesity, relationship problems, and emotional distress. Dr. Sunil Dubey provides comprehensive treatment for all cases of sexual dysfunction in both men and women. In cases involving women, he always delivers his medical services through 'couples therapy.' Women seeking solutions for their sexual issues are required to visit the Dubey Clinic accompanied by their male partner or guardian.

Sexual Pain Disorder (SPD) or Dyspareunia

Pain during sexual intercourse (also known as 'dyspareunia') is one of the most common sexual problems affecting both men and women. However, the majority of cases involve women, due to their specific biological and reproductive conditions. In fact, pain affects the entire sexual response cycle, potentially causing difficulties with desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution (the post-response phase). Various causes and physical conditions can be responsible for such sexual problems; therefore, it is always essential to consult a qualified sexologist for the right treatment.

Based on his daily clinical practice and experience, Dr. Sunil Dubey states that men describe this sexual issue in terms of erectile pain (pain during an erection), painful ejaculation, or the abnormal discharge of a white fluid (infection or skin-related disease). In the case of women, however, the problem manifests as vaginal dryness, vaginismus, low libido, and so on. He treats a wide range of sexual problems in both men and women using both scientific and Ayurvedic approaches. At Dubey Clinic, he and his team are committed to helping individuals who seek safe, effective, and evidence-based treatments that offer long-lasting benefits.