Erotic massage – both you and sex worker are naked and they massage your whole body including your genitals with their hands
Body rub – this is the same as an erotic massage
Body slide – usually a part of an erotic massage service. When the client is naked, face down, the sex worker will slide their naked body along the client’s body
Hand job/hand relief – the sex worker masturbates you, usually happens towards the end of an erotic massage/body rub
Spanish – the penis is masturbated by rubbing it between the breasts
Oral sex – also known as French or fellatio (oral on a male) or cunnilingus (oral on a female). This is where a person uses their mouth to stimulate another person’s genitals
Full service/Fully inclusive – sex. Can also include an erotic massage and oral before having sex
Sex/Intercourse – penetration of a penis into a vagina (when seeing a female sex worker) or a penis into a bottom (when seeing a male sex worker – see Anal sex)
Anal sex (also known as Greek) – penetrating the anus with a penis or penis-like object
Active/Top – a male sex worker who offers penetrative anal sex BUT does not receive anal sex from the client
Passive/Bottom – a male sex worker who receives penetrative anal sex BUT does not penetrate the client
Fully Versatile – term for a male sex worker who offers both active and passive services
Tie and tease – the sex worker gently ties your hands and feet to the bed or massage table and touches your whole body without you being able to touch them.
Fantasy – can include the sex worker dressing up in a particular costume or uniform (ie. nurse/ schoolgirl/army fatigues/sportswear) and /or role-play
Role-play – happens in a fantasy session where the client and sex worker agree on a particular scenario and play a certain role ie. the client is a headmaster and the sex worker is a naughty schoolgirl and is spanked when she gets the answers wrong in class
B/D or Bondage and Discipline – includes being whipped, flogged, caned, tied up, told what to do when in restraints etc. Most trained sex workers who offer these services are known as Professional Mistresses or Masters.
S/M or Sadism and Masochism – a more extreme form of B/D. Can include superficial piercing, cuttings, extreme sensory depravation, humiliation, medical scenarios etc. Most trained sex workers who offer these services are known as Professional Mistresses or Masters.