"Back Stabbers" is a 1972 song by the O'Jays. Released from the hit album of the same name, it spent one week at number 1 on the Hot Soul Singles chart. It was also successful on the pop chart, peaking at number 3 on the Billboard Hot 100 in October 1972.[1] The narrator in "Back Stabbers" warns men about their male "friends" who smile to their faces, but are secretly planning to steal their wives or girlfriends.[2] It was inspired by an earlier hit with a similar theme, the Undisputed Truth's "Smiling Faces Sometimes", the chorus of which is quoted at the end of this song. It was part of the soundtrack for the 1977 movie, Looking for Mr. Goodbar. In 2002, the song was sampled by R&B artist Angie Stone for her single "Wish I Didn't Miss You".

In 1983 Australian singer-songwriter Stephen Cummings released Backstabbers in December 1983 through the Regular Records label as the third single from the album Senso. Cummings version peaked at number 40 on the Kent Music Report.

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I never cease to be amazed at people who stoop to stabbing other people in the back. Just this week I got blindsided by someone I thought was a friend (at least casually). I never had a cross word with this person and yet I was thrown under the bus along with two other co-workers. Fortunately for me, one of us was in the room and overheard the remarks. I really appreciated what my friend did. They called the back stabber out and told them how inappropriate and untrue it was.

I was hurt by the cutting remarks and part of me wanted to lash out and let them know how I felt. This is where the hard part comes in. I had just been listening to some Scripture where Jesus was teaching us to love our enemies and pray for them. Hmmmm. Sometimes I don't want to act like Jesus. LOL.

The more I thought about it the more I realized that attacks like this are an attempt to elevate themselves at the expense of others. Pretty pathetic when you think about it. How juvenile is that? I try my best to get along with everyone, but I have no illusion that everyone loves me. I just know that I can't control how they look at me. I can only do what is right and let God deal with them.

When I offend someone, I try to take responsibility and apologize for it. When someone offends me, I try to talk to them about it in a calm and rational manner and work it out. Sometimes people will fess up when they mess up and sometimes they justify what they did. Either way, I try to talk to them instead of everyone around them. At least we both know where we stand.

No matter how angry I am hearing all those misleading stories, I make sure to keep myself calm before I make an action. An angry person will only commit irate actions and might say things he or she will regret in the end. So, inhale, exhale with kindness and take an hour to digest the information. Once you feel calm enough, proceed to the next step.

I always believe that there is something to learn from every situation. Being a "victim" or even a courageous triumpher of backstabbers will help you learn more about these people, their behaviours and also about yourself. Recognising these things will also help you grow more.

Why do nurses feel the need to "tattle" on colleagues to the boss for petty things? Behavior like this does nothing to elevate our profession and everything to keep us down. Why are there some nurses who feel superior when they tell on someone to the manager? This recently happened to me and I thought I had a good rapport with my co-workers yet one of them ratted me out to the boss on an off-the-cuff remark that I made. Why does this happen? Is it because the majority of nurses are women and women are catty individuals. I'm a woman btw. From now on though, I am just going to do my work, and only talk to the other nurses/aides about clinically relevant stuff only. Other than that, I'll keep my nose in a book. Actually, I won't be working at this current place much longer. There are staffing issues that put my license in jeoprady so I am starting a job hunt after the holidays.

I'm a guy. Consider myself a typical blue state liberal. Even was educated (BA, MA) at a historical women's college that turned co-ed. Can't stand sports, etc, etc. In other words, I am about as much of a feminist as the other person.

But since I started nursing school I am sounding more and more like a Neanderthal guy when talking about some of my classmates. Only 5 guys in a large, large class. A lot of the women (not all - but lots) spend an inordinate amount of time bitching, moaning, backstabbing, and sabataging each other. I simply am amazed at the behavior. I see the same thing with RNs at my clinicals. The good news - being a guy, I am largely immune or at least not atuned to that behavior as far as I am personally concerned. Every week there is inevitably a huge breakdown in my class as some student cries about how someone is treating her. Yuck...no wonder a lot of the directors where I am an extern have said (both men and women - all highly educated, intelligent people) "we love to hire men." In fact, half of the questions at my extern interview entailed how I would handle social situations ("what if someone is gossiping about you"). In my 12 years in the corporate-world, no one would EVER ask a stupid question like that at a job interview. It prompted my wife to ask "what kind of profession are you training for????"

the million dollar question?? i think because of 2 things, 1 , they are jealous because you do your job and do it well and 2, because they aren't as great as they think they are and yes a third, some nurses need to stab other because they are missing something in their onw life and the only way to avoid that "thing" is talk about some one else.

Let me tell you. I work in corporate america in a call center for Large Business accounts for a major telecommunications company, where the majority is WOMEN (think operators), and I see this day in and day out. I see the pettiness and the bitching and complaining and the back stabbing, especially if there is a higher position at stake. It's not based on work ethics and what you know, it's based on who you know and how far you are willing to go to get that position. It's so cut throat, it's unreal. Based on my experience in coporate america, I will carry this lesson to nursing school and the real world. I've learn to only form work related working relationships and everything else is off limits.

I think basically its a manipulation thing. Managers know that people are looking to make their lives easier and they choose to appear to reward people who spill about things that go on when they arent around, as well as it strokes the ego of management to see co-workers barking about each other. Youve surely heard of divide and conquer. Little do these people know they are doing nothing to promote themselves but in most cases being used until the rest of the staff cant stand to work with them any longer and they eventually get squeezed out.

IVe seen it over and over,, eventually the write-ups start coming on the person who likes to recount everything and eventually they (management) cant ignore it. I hate write-ups by the way,, i think they need to be used gingerly and after much analysis of a situation. Write-ups can be as bad as the "tattletale" game. These people tend to forget what goes around comes around.

Oh, you are SOO dead right! I work for AT&T and let me tell you, I've seen it all. I've heard of people getting "followed" on their sick days because someone "told" coporate security they were not "really sick". I've seen all the "smile in your face, you're doing such a great job" later only to be repriminded for not "following the script" on a call, although the "customer" was clearly irate and had every right to be. I've seen people climb the corporate ladder without ANY degree, no knowledge other than the 8 hour crash training course, and STILL manage to land the position because they went out to lunch with a friend who was in charge of hiring for the position just to "put in a good word" for them. Not to mention, their attendence is horrible and they are one step away from getting fired.

Unfortunately, I don't think backstabbing is confined to nurses, but rather in the female gender. Another poster mentioned jealously, and I agree that is probable one of the biggest factors. I think some people do it just to boost their self esteem. You know, if they make someone else look or feel bad, the offender will feel better about themselves. We have all heard the comment, "Nurses eat their young." I think that is just another way of referring to the backstabbing that some women choose to do. 152ee80cbc

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