I don’t use Facebook Messenger nor WhatsApp for messaging
FB gets more than enough to profit from me, I’m not going to give them access to my more private thoughts in messaging. Their equivalence about neo-fascists (you know, the alt-right / pro-Trump groups and pages that they let pollute their servers) is enough to make me give them the bare minimum. Facebook just sucks.
If you want to chat with me, I use these systems: