Why can't we choose to design our own life and why do we think that we cannot all be the designers of our lives?

Most people do not understand and do not realize the importance of the design of our lives.

Many people focus on living it on time rather than setting goals and having a map for life. Thus, much time in life is taken for making decisions and solving problems. We make our choices when facing intersections or dead ends or when we encounter a life-threatening situation: deciding what to do with life at each moment, so we often face obstacles in life.

In Life path planning, the majority of parents are trying to determine the fate of their children. Parents often determine the course of their children’s lives. Whether choosing to studyor choosing a place of work or finding a life partner, these traditions that has been a cultivated habit since the past and the present, still have this value.

Most parents send their children to school in different places, as they want common people, especially Thai people. Parents did not teach their children how to think independently or to set life goals and life plans by themselves. Most of the time, parents decide their children's destiny and make plans for them to be the way they want them to be, so most people can't plan their lives.

We have never seen any institution or university teach students how to design life and to succeed without systematically teaching you how to think and plan your life. Besides, most educational systems focus on excellence in the field of study. Many times we graduated and we did not like or love our area of study so we graduated not happy. There are many people who have graduated and do not work in the fields they studied. They have graduated and yet still have to learn many new things as their jobs are not related to their area of study.

Rules of life design: Create change.

Whatever you visualize in your mind, always do it with confidence, and it will always be drawn to you.

Therefore, you should create an image in your mind by imagining the positive aspects, in a positive light and believe in it. Don’t worry or focus on the bad, or think of failure or negative energies. If you want your life to turn out well then think of the positive. You set your mind, be conscious, let go, do not stress, do not worry. Determine our reason: Those who are worried will not make the right decisions, and it will all go astray.

Think about your passion. What do you think of a lot?

Anticipate and see yourself achieving that success.

Imagine that you already have it and that you are enjoying it. Imagine, create a picture of happiness, success, and insert all positive ideas. This will make you happy with your vision and escape from the world. It is in our mind and we can all set our own minds. We can concentrate living in the present and to define one's thoughts. As Albert Einstein once said, "Imagination is more important than knowledge”. Be confident that we have a small dream in our head, and one day it will happen and it will succeed. Keep thinking like this every day as it stimulates the subconscious mind. Hypnotize ourselves and let us be inspired to do what we dream and achieve happiness.

Best wishes

Amornrat Boonyarit : Coach Ami Lawyer