Healing Each Affair Lovingly (HEAL) Infidelity Support Groups

We are so glad you found HEAL! We welcome you (and your partner) to join our free support groups. HEAL helps people all over the world find thriving, trust, joy, and love beyond infidelity. Together, we shine a healing light on affairs through sharing journeys, mutual support and, evidence-based strategies.

❤️‍🩹 Who are HEAL members?

HEAL members are compassionate people from all over healing and growing after relationship betrayal. Our groups welcome everyone, no matter how they identify, and we do not promote any religion or belief system. HEAL also supports the betrayed and wayward partners (in separate groups), as well as those separating, reconciling, or uncertain. HEAL facilitators, mentors, and the founder are volunteers: giving back for support received in their own healing journeys. We are truly for in this for everyone.

❤️‍🩹 What does HEAL do?

HEAL is all about thriving beyond infidelity. Our #1 focus is holding free, regular, support group meetings, which we have done for over thousands of members since 2014. Our meeting agreements convey the feeling of being in a meeting: safe, compassionate, respectful, accepting, and deep. We don't partner bash, and we have separate groups for both faithful and unfaithful partners. We even have (optional) joint meetings for both partners or couples. We recognize that a communal, empathy-based approach to support benefits everyone. 

Each HEAL group also has a dedicated online forum so members can interact between meetings, find meeting information, and share healing resources. All HEAL activity is currently in English, but let us know if you can help provide support in other languages. We even have a mentorship program that matches new and experienced members for one-to-one support, along with other selfish/service options.

❤️‍🩹 How does HEAL do it?

Each healing journey is unique, so HEAL does not use a 12-step model or any other formulaic approach. The magic of a well-run support group lies in the courage, empathy, grace, inspiration, wisdom, experience, understanding, and healing strategies/stories shared by members in a judgement-free, expertly facilitated space. HEAL also shares research from evidence-based domains of healing, mindfulness, relationship practices, wellness, and positive psychology to help every member powerfully. HEAL is a volunteer organization, supported only by member goodwill. 

❤️‍🩹 What do HEALers (members) say?

Members agree we are the top-rated and longest running support group worldwide. Visit alove.ca/infidelity-support for more member comments, read testimonials going back over the years, or check out all our Google reviews. 

• "In more than two years of therapy, books and courses, I've never had a more positive or helpful experience." ~ Rosa
• "The most healing place I have found in my whole life." ~ Jenn
• "For the first time since my infidelity, I feel at home and not alone." ~ Eric
• "This group, and this man, saved my life." ~ Jane

❤️‍🩹 Is HEAL legit?

A first time member shared (at our May, 2025 meeting): "I wondered if this group was a scam, but after experiencing the safety, support, and authenticity of tonight's meeting, I know this group is 100% legit." Find out for yourself by joining. You risk only a little of your time, but have your whole, precious life to gain. HEAL is the real deal. If you are reading this then you are fortunate to have found one of the best havens available for those impacted by infidelity.

❤️‍🩹 How do I join HEAL?

Click the appropriate group link below to join. All groups are private, so your name can be set to your account default, or anything you wish. 

1. Click here to join our group for faithful/betrayed partners, then click "Ask to join" or "Sign in" with a Google account first. 

2. Click here to join our group for unfaithful/wayward partners, then click "Ask to join" or "Sign in" with a Google account first.

❤️‍🩹 Can I get some support right now?

• Check out these top healing resources (including post-discovery first aid, self-care/self-love playsheet, trigger toolkit) and other books and resources. 

• Access best-in-class coaching for you and/or your partner (new members get a free session after they have participated/shared in a meeting).

• After joining above, share some of your story in our faithful or unfaithful group forum (you must join above first and my own story is here). 

❤️‍🩹 Is HEAL really free?

Yes, HEAL groups are always free and open to anyone--no fees are ever required. Facilitators and mentors are group members who volunteer their time to support others via multiple forms of service. Donations are optional, but greatly appreciated, to offset our web, meet, and content costs, as well as to grow HEAL as an organization. To donate, use Stripe, Paypal, or  contact me to arrange an e-transfer (Canadians). Check out these suggested donation amounts based on financial means.