I really understand it is going to sound stupid to be so open by sex work, but I have finally concluded why most of the men are impatient and sound unpleasant to women.

I get so many calls and messages from men who want to do anal with me in less than an hour without any introduction or foreplay. Actually, my agenda being a sex worker is to make people understand the ways to approach women they like, build intimate relations with mutual consent, and be a nice partner, and you know what?

Build a relation full of lots of love and intimacy takes time

The work I do, I need to be very honest and reasonable in place, but most of the time I find myself forced like a piece of meat sent on a conveyer belt, getting ready to be swallowed hurriedly, instead of feeling excitement and sexually stimulated.

All men try to contact me, and they will get super exhilarated when they get to know that I provide all kinds of sexual acts like 69, doggy-style, cowboy, etc. They will be too much excited to try them all out and make full use of my body in one go.

In any case, I've discovered that I need time to create a relationship with people, so as to feel comfortable and confident for things to look natural and normal. Else, I have an awkward feeling that I'm being pushed into a play without my permission, and it leaves me feeling really weird a while later, and a friendly relationship that was started with such a move and gets corrupted potentially, and I need to slice it off so as to make me feel secure and safe.

There are a number of turn-offs that a woman doesn't like at all

1) Discourtesy

2) Pushiness

3) Eagerness

4) Brutality

5) Immaturity

6) Possessiveness

Here is the list of what turns the women ON:

· Kindness

· Grown-up behavior

· A sense of respect

· Gratitude

· Generosity

· Appreciative mindset

Over the past number of years of my experience in the intimate adult industry, the most rewarding encounters I found were with customers who have permitted me to set a free space to build intimacy and take pleasure to next level while both relishing the fun moments. There are a number of people with whom I have remarkable sex relationships and they have been with me for a number of years. Together we have fulfilled so many fantasies together that we could not even dream of without each other.

There are a number of things a man can do to spoil things so much easily:

· Negotiating with my rates at first

· Continuously asking me to contact them

· Complaining about my rules and policies

· Meeting me while they are severely drunk

· Trying to cross boundaries

· Not caring towards my feelings or safety procedures what making love

· So much excited to penetrate the anal region and vagina quickly

Here is the list of ways one can build long-lasting relationships:

1) Keeping conversations going during acts

2) Be caring and respectful towards me

3) Appreciate my moves and allow me to go with my pace

4) Respect my policies and allowing the use of xxx toys

5) Affectionate, generous and give value to my time

6) Let me enjoy the steamy moments

7) Welcome my female energy

8) Embracing my openness

If you like it rough, you get it poorly

Men need to understand that they need to go slow at first so women can go fast. Or in other words, we can say that" Don't scare the girl" and in case you do, she will kick your butt and make you fall on the ground. No doubt, after that you will be left wondering there what I have done wrong and getting confused, sitting alone empty-handed with adult products bought from India, and end up going back without getting even a look at her tits and moving back where they came from.

Most of the men come in so excited, feeling hot greedy for touching me, I take it as a tease!. I know I give a signal to me that I am erotically available and charge for it accordingly. But, they need to know that I am not a prig! I am a super gal! I like exploding into the forbidden fantasy Bondage Sex Toys box with a kinky partner holding Online Sex Toys bought from a store craving to make big muss.

Personally, I prefer to know the guy before getting a ride with them in bed. For some people, it may take months or weeks, but generally, I speed up the process by providing my clients a minimum 1-hour talking session.

After that, I would like to get into an intimate session and establish the mental and physical base for giving them a vanilla sex experience before jumping into sensual banging, I prefer to establish a trust to feel secure.