-At this point, things could go either way: He could ask her where she would like to meet (if she doesn't offer) or if he is more of an adventurer - suggest that she meet him somewhere. Be sure to send her all the necessary information including address, time, etcetera so there are no misunderstandings. If somehow you guys can't get together at your planned location for whatever reason - let her know ASAP.
-Be sure to meet in a public place, there is safety in numbers. This way you will feel more secure and they won't have any desire to back out last minute because of fear of being alone with a stranger, which might make her think twice about going on another date with you. Also, if she seems nervous or uncomfortable around you - it's okay to postpone your meeting by a few hours/days/weeks so that they can get their head straight and feel safe from harm. The great thing about online dating is that you guys have been talking for quite some time before even setting up the first meeting, so most likely they already know whether or not their comfort zone can handle meeting up in person with you.
-When asking them out, be sure to be clear that this is a date and they WILL most likely have to spend some time alone with you. There's nothing wrong with mentioning the word "date" when asking them; many people are concerned with appearing too eager or coming across as desperate. The more confident she feels in your ability to make her enjoy herself - the more likely she will go on another one (if not, perhaps online dating isn't for her). If there's anything that I've learned about women over the years; it's that they like men who take control of their lives and always think about others before themselves. Most guys wait until someone asks them out while some wait forever because nobody wants to put themselves out
"My date was about to leave and I didn't even get his name."
This is the most common dating horror story. These wonderful, spontaneous, romantic dates seem so promising when we set out on them. What could be more sexy than meeting a stranger at a club or bar and finding that there's mutual interest? We spend time getting dressed up, putting on our make-up and styling our hair for a night of fun that will end with us going to bed with our new potential lover. We're feeling excited, open to possibilities and maybe even a little nervous as we wait for our date in some trendy spot in town where we know nobody but him. Then he's late, or sometimes doesn't show up at all. After an hour or two of waiting, he finally shows up and we spend a couple of hours together only to find that the chemistry is just not there. We go home alone – horny, sad, broken hearted and maybe even feeling used.