1. Be sure you understand the statement. If something is unclear, ask! 

2. Face each other. Body language helps show that you’re listening carefully and respectfully. 

3. Only one speaker at a time. Everyone will get their turn to speak. 

4. Think before you speak. Be sure that what you’re going to say is what you really mean. 

5. Summarize the previous person’s comments before adding your own. 

6. Address ideas, not the person. Challenging ideas or statements is good only if we respect the individuality and inherent value of the person who expressed them. 

7. Three before me. To make sure everyone’s voice is heard, you may not make another comment until three others have shared their thoughts.

You might find these statements challenging—and you might find it challenging to talk with someone who has a different answer from your own. That’s okay! Remember, changing your mind when you learn new information is a sign of strength, not weakness. 

1. The arts give meaning to life. (Or: Life is meaningless without the arts.) 

2. One cannot live without others. 

3. Those you surround yourself with impact your values and beliefs. 

4. I can make it through a difficult time on my own. 

5. Mocking someone is harmless. 

6. Flirting is unintentional. 

7. Happiness is fleeting. (Or: Happiness is temporary). 

8. Love lasts forever. 

9. Memories can sustain happiness. 

10. Hardship is a universal experience shared by all.