Pastors’ Ponderings

Becky Kindig, Associate Pastor

Greetings friends,

As we get ready to move into Advent, the time of preparing for the miracle of Christmas, I find myself reflecting on what a strange time we are in. Many of us were hoping this time last year that by this Christmas, the pandemic would be long over with the news that a vaccination was on the way. And while the vaccination has greatly improved things, has cut hospitalizations and deaths by a great percentage for those who have received them, we are not back to the way things were in the before times.

This kind of in-between old and new is what we call a liminal space. It is like being on the threshold of a doorway, not outside and not yet inside. It’s a place of leaving one thing and not yet being sure of what is next. It can be a scary place to be, leaving something old behind and not knowing what is next, but it can also be an exciting time. It’s like what young people experience when they go off to college. The old ways have prepared them for what is next, but what is coming is going to be vastly different than what they knew before. They have the benefit of having people around that can help them through, who have gone through college and can tell them that the chaos they feel is normal and it will get better and everything will be okay.

Unfortunately, we don’t have that with the pandemic. No one alive has been through this, and we all are going through it together. There is no one who has gotten to the other side to tell us it is going to be okay. There is no one to give us tips and tricks; we are developing and learning new things from scratch and we are tired.

But I think if we step back a little, we have a grand opportunity to develop something new. Just like going to college, you have the space to be exposed to new ideas and you have a chance to dream about the way things could be.

We have that opportunity right now. We have this time to dream and listen to God and look around at the needs of our congregation and our community and think about a new vision. What tools and resources did our lives pre-pandemic give us that we can use going into this new thing? What are the things that don’t work anymore and we need to place in a “museum” of sorts and honor for the gifts it gave us, but move on with different patterns or knowledge or tools for the time that comes next? And how can we take some ownership of the new thing coming and make our corner of the world a better place for everyone?

What are some things specifically for United Presbyterian Church of Binghamton that we want to envision? What values do we hold dear and how do we want to use them to help nurture our congregation and the people in downtown Binghamton? How do we want to nourish our children? How do we want to use our gifts? We would love to hear from you.

One thing that I think we can do while we do some dreaming and listening is to be gentle with one another and spread as much compassion as we can. We need to be there for each other and reach out and ask how it is going. We need to listen to each other’s needs. And we need to try to assume the best of each other, because most of us are trying the best we can.

This Advent, as we prepare for the miracle of Christmas, when God had so much compassion that God came to earth to be one of us to teach us how to care for each other, let us be reminded of that love. Let us be reminded that the world was never the same because of that love. And let us imagine ways to bring that love to those around us.

Grace and Peace,
Pastor Becky