Negative thinking and negativity sound the same, but there are some key differences in the two approaches to dealing with life and making decisions. While negative thinking can help us move forward, being purely negative can hold us back from making important changes in our life.
Gina Psenicska, Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) at Sean's House
Gina Psenicska is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with Sean's House, a mental health support organization for young adults and University of Delaware students. In her practice, Gina suggests that patients who are having hurtful thought patterns "pay attention to their inner dialogue and what they are saying to themselves." She encourages them to "write down and start learning what they're thinking in situations that are challenging and hard...to be more self-aware." With this advice, Gina is helping potential pessimists to use their negative thinking for growth and to learn from it. In this respect, she is differentiating between negativity and negative thinking, with the latter having the ability to anticipate other potential, more positive outcomes, and how to achieve them.
Sure, but does that really work? Has negative thinking ever actually benefited anyone? The answer is yes.
Negative thinking helped Crimson Ervin through a difficult time in her life, “It’s definitely helped me in my extracurriculars for sure. I was a horse trainer for about three years, and the thing about being a horse trainer is that with every horse you learn something new. So when you keep that negative mindset of ‘I am not a good trainer, so I have to try to be a good trainer’, then you’re able to connect with each horse individually." Ervin also adds: "I never tell myself that I’m good at something because I don’t want to feel motivated not to try and do better at it. I never wanna be complacent in where I am."
Crimson Ervin, University of Delaware student, '26, Member of E-52 Theatre