Addiction & Substance Abuse
2019 PAYS Survey
UCF School District as compared to Chester County and the Commonwealth of PA
FOCUS partnered with the UCF Administration to present the results of the 2019 PAYS survey which shares perspectives on what these numbers tell us about our children's risky behaviors and their social/emotional health.
Here’s how you take back control:
Awareness … you see, awareness changes everything. Awareness is your weapon against the hidden influences and damaging behaviors. While you are online, your mind, your thoughts, your core values are drifting to wherever tech companies want you to go. The remedy is to limit the time you spend drifting in the online world and tether yourself to real life.
Book Recommendations for Parents
Below is a list of parenting books. Some we have read and found to be interesting and helpful; others come highly recommended. Enjoy!
The Price of Privilege: How Parental Pressure and Material Advantage Are Creating a Generation of Disconnected and Unhappy Kids by Madeline Levine
A must-read for any parent. A great primer on how to raise healthy, happy children. Particular guidance for those parenting teenagers/tweens.
How to Talk So Kids will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk by Elaine Mazlish
Great book with important communication strategies that will help enhance the dialogue between parents and their children.
Queen Bees & Wannabes: Helping Your Daughter Survive Cliques, Gossip, Boyfriends & Other Realities of Adolescence by Rosalind Wiseman
Good reading for parents and daughters. It offers the tools you need to help your daughter feel empowered and make smarter choices.
“Get Out of My Life, but First Could You Drive Me and Cheryl to the Mall?”: A Parent’s Guide to the New Teenager by Anthony E. Wolf
The Optimistic Child: Proven Program to Safeguard Children from Depression & Build Lifelong Resilience, by Martin E. Seligman
A guide to help your child view the world in a more positive way to help him/her lead a more meaningful and fulfilling life.
Freeing Your Child from Anxiety: Powerful, Practical Solutions to Overcome Your Child's Fears, Worries, and Phobias, by Tamar Chansky
The Whipped Parent: Hope for Parents Raising an Out-of-Control Teen by Kimberly Abraham, Marney Studaker-Cordner, with Kathryn O’Dea
A practical, realistic resource for dealing with serious behaviors. Helps parents learn to stop blaming themselves, handle disappointment from unmet expectations, and work with courts and schools.
Reality Gap: Alcohol, Drugs, and Sex – What Parents Don’t Know and Teens Aren’t Telling by Stephen Wallace
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens by Sean Covey
An engaging step-by-step guide to help teens improve self-image, build friendships, resist peer pressure, achieve their goals, get along with their parents, and much more.
Community Resources
For referrals or assistance, please call CVC's Hotlines at
610-692-7420 (Sexual Assault) or 610-692-7273 (Other Crimes).
Local
Chester County Community Resource Guide
http://www.chesco.org/DocumentCenter/View/4275
County of Chester
Legal Assistance/Protection Orders
Domestic Violence Center
610-431-1430
Legal Aid of South Eastern PA
1-877-429-5994
State
Offender Notification Programs
Office of the Victim Advocate
http://www.ova.pa.gov/Pages/default.aspx
Vinelink/SAVIN
http://www.cor.pa.gov/INMATES/Pages/PA-SAVINVINELink.aspx#.WR3mUo3D-M8
Statewide Victim Service Programs
Pennsylvania Coalition Against Rape (PCAR)
Pennsylvania Commission on Crime and Delinquency (PCCD)
http://www.pccd.pa.gov/pages/default.aspx
Federal
Polaris Project
National Human Trafficking Hotline: 1-888-373-7888
National Center for Victims of Crime