From rustic barns in Hertfordshire to elegant manor houses in Kent, Essex, and Northamptonshire, I’ve had the joy of performing at beautiful wedding venues across the southeast. If you’re getting married at one of these locations, there’s a good chance I already know the layout and how to get the best from the space.

Hertfordshire

• Aubrey Park Hotel - St Albans (★ Recommended Supplier)

• Brocket Hall - Welwyn Garden City

• Barn at the Rose and Crown  - Welwyn

• Coltsfoot Country Retreat – Datchworth

• Fanhams Hall - Ware

• Hunton Park Hotel – Kings Langley  (★ Recommended Supplier)

• Milling Barn – Buntingford

• Tewin Bury Farm Hotel – Welwyn (★ Recommended Supplier)

• Tewin Country Weddings – Welwyn

• St Michael's Manor Hotel – St Albans

Northamptonshire

• Crockwell Farm, Daventry

• Home Farm Events – Daventry

Kent

• Chilston Park Hotel – Maidstone

Essex

• The Reid Rooms – Dunmow (★ Recommended Supplier)

• The Lion House - Chelmsford

Bedfordshire

• Eversholt Hall – Milton Keynes (★ Recommended Supplier)

Warwickshire

• Rugby School – Rugby

• Shustoke Barn – Coleshill

Cotswolds

• Lapstone Barn - Chipping Campden

Planning your wedding music should feel exciting and easy!
Here are some popular guides couples often find helpful:

• How Many Songs Do You Need for Your Wedding Ceremony?

• Wedding Ceremony Song Ideas

• How Many Songs Do You Need for Your Wedding (Full Day)?

Feel free to dive into any guide — and if you have any questions, just reach out. I'm always happy to help you plan the perfect soundtrack for your day!

Planning your wedding music should feel simple, personal and exciting. To help make things easier, I’ve answered some of the questions couples regularly ask before booking. If you can’t find what you’re looking for, feel free to get in touch.

What makes your performances different from other wedding musicians?

I perform using live looping, building songs live using guitar, vocals and layered instrumentation to create a fuller sound throughout the day. This allows the music to grow naturally with the atmosphere, from relaxed acoustic moments during your ceremony or drinks reception to bigger singalong moments later in the evening.

For couples looking for the atmosphere of a live wedding band in Hertfordshire, live looping allows me to create a fuller sound while still keeping the feel of live acoustic music.

Can we request specific songs for the setlist?

Absolutely. I’m always happy to include important songs you love, special requests for key moments such as your ceremony or first dance, and any songs you would rather avoid. I usually shape the main setlist around the atmosphere of the day, allowing the music to flow naturally and fit the moment as it unfolds.

Do you take requests during the event?

If there’s a song request, I already know and it fits the atmosphere of the day, I’m always happy to include it where I can. I also work closely with couples beforehand to make sure the most important songs are already part of the plan.

How long will it take to set up?

I usually arrive at least 90 minutes before performing to make sure everything is ready without rushing. This gives me time to soundcheck properly and ensure everything runs smoothly throughout the day.

Do you play music between your sets?

Yes. I can provide background music between live performances to help keep the atmosphere flowing naturally throughout the day.

What if my wedding venue has sound restrictions?

I use a professional Bose sound system that allows me to adjust volume levels easily depending on the venue and atmosphere. This means I can work comfortably within sound restrictions while still delivering clear, high quality live music.

Do you use lighting?

I don’t provide lighting as part of my setup. Most wedding venues already have their own lighting in place, and I prefer to keep the focus on the atmosphere and the music itself throughout the day.

How far do you travel?

I’m based in Welwyn Garden City, Hertfordshire and regularly perform across Bedfordshire, Buckinghamshire, Essex, Northamptonshire and the surrounding counties. I currently take bookings within around 75 miles of Hertfordshire.

Can we see you play or watch a video before we book you?

Yes, absolutely. You can watch videos from real weddings on my YouTube and Instagram pages or come along to one of my public performances. I list these on the events page.

How do we book you?

It’s nice and simple:

• Fill out my enquiry form to check if I’m free for your date

• We’ll have a quick chat by phone to talk through your plans and make sure we’re the right fit

• Secure your date with a 10% deposit. The balance is due one week before your wedding

After that, I’ll guide you through song choices and planning the music as your big day approaches.

What happens once we book you?

Once your date is secured, I’ll guide you through choosing the right music for each part of your day, from the ceremony to the evening celebrations. Around four weeks before the wedding, I’ll check in to confirm timings, song choices and final details. On the day itself, I’ll arrive early, set up quietly and handle everything music related so you can relax and enjoy the day.

Do you have insurance and PAT tested equipment?

Yes. I’m fully insured with public liability cover, and all of my equipment is PAT tested. I can also provide the paperwork directly to your venue if needed.

Don’t see your question here?

Just drop me an email at contact@tomwackett.co.uk. I’m always happy to chat and help however I can.