Thanksgiving Traditions Look Different This Year

by Lena Schiavo

A huge tradition that my family has always held onto is gathering for the holidays. Thanksgiving in specific is a time where we spend quality time with our extended family. It’s always nice to have dinner with those who you see on a regular basis. However, I believe that cousins, aunts and uncles, grandparents, and others just add such a different energy level and the vibe is drastically different, obviously in a positive way.

I think everyone can agree that the COVID-19 Pandemic has pushed people to the edge. To first quarantine, then go to school every other day, it’s terrible. And now, every Niskayuna student was virtual for almost an entire week until the end of Thanksgiving break. I miss having conversations with new people I have never introduced myself to and making new friends. But, like I was talking about before, you need to surround yourself with family these days. Thanksgiving is supposed to be a time when families gather with one another so they can catch up with those distant relatives who aren’t around all of the time, just because of their work schedule or depending on where they live. Every year my grandparents, who do live in Niskayuna, thankfully, invite my family over, as well as my cousins, aunt, and uncle. My extended family unfortunately cannot travel due to the high COVID-19 rates located in New Jersey, and although it’s sad, I think it’s for the better. As much as I love seeing them, I wouldn’t want to put anyone, especially my grandparents in any sort of danger. Although, we are luckily going to attend and will surely make the best out of the night.

As our country wrestles with the ongoing epidemic, many are preparing for this feast like no other in history. We have already seen the effects this infection has had on worldwide occasions and traditions, like the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade, which is going to be “television-only” this year. At least it isn’t completely cancelled! This season can most definitely be a time to reconnect with loved ones. At the same time, make sure to be cautious and try to modify your holiday plans for the sake of others' precious lives. For example, possibly celebrating virtually. Parties or even functions with more people pose more risk than gatherings with fewer people. We all want our community to be safe and healthy, so be smart and remember that this outbreak is no joke. It is deadly and very sorrowful. Zoom meetings can be a great way to connect with family who you cannot meet with in person. It is the safest way to bond in these times.

As the holiday season is upon us, remember also that you can still have fun. While this time can be stressful and disappointing with the pandemic, it also provides opportunities for making new and unique memories. Who knows? Perhaps years from now you’ll be remembering your crazy family Zoom meeting. Spreading holiday cheer could look like making masks for friends or going grocery shopping for your elderly neighbor. Think of some other ways you can make this holiday season unique and cheerful during these unprecedented times. Be safe and happy holidays!