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Social media sites and apps are an important part of how we all use the internet. Younger children may enjoy sites like Animal Jam that do not fit the traditional social media mold, but still allow users to communicate with each other, while older children, teens, and adults, may prefer sites like Facebook, and apps like Snapchat and Instagram.
In a 2018 Pew Research survey, teens were split on whether social media had a mostly positive or mostly negative effect on their lives. The noted positive elements included social media’s role in connecting them with friends and family, easy access to news and information, and meeting others with similar interests. The noted negative effects included bullying, lack of in-person contact, and unrealistic views of others’ lives.
Most social media sites and apps (including Facebook, SnapChat, Twitter, Instagram, and Musical.ly) require users to be at least 13 years old, though it is not uncommon for youths to be untruthful about their date of birth in order to gain access to the site or app. By accessing these platforms before age 13, young children are at an increased risk of encountering inappropriate content and/or contact from older users.
How to talk about it
How to talk about it
Use these discussion starters to talk about using social media safely with every age group.
ASK
ASK
What’s your favorite website or app? What do you like to do there?
Have you ever seen something online you didn’t want to see?
Do you ever talk to people you don’t know online? What do you talk about?
Can you show me which sites and apps you’re using?
Would you feel comfortable if I checked your accounts?
What kinds of things do you post?
How do you decide who to add as a friend?
How much personal information do you share online?
REINFORCE
REINFORCE
It’s safest to only add people you know offline to your online circles. Ask kids to check their “friends” and “followers” lists to see who has access to their accounts. Encourage them to remove anyone they don’t know or trust. Children should also block or “unfriend” anyone bothering them.
Privacy settings are there to help make the experience safe! Teach kids and teens to use privacy settings. While they don’t guarantee complete privacy, they can help children control who sees what they share.
Today, one’s online reputation counts offline, too. Help children remove any personal or inappropriate images from social media and other accounts.
If it wouldn’t be OK to do or so offline, it’s not OK online, either. Help children and teens report any criminal behavior to the police and report inappropriate posts to the website or app -- most have a system in place to handle these complaints.
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Information for this section taken from and/or adapted from https://www.missingkids.org/netsmartz/topics/socialmedia.
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