Online Safety

Talking to 6–10-Year-Olds About Cyberbullying

Resource Link: Internet Matters – Cyberbullying Conversation Starters Guide (6–10 Year Olds)

Overview

As primary school children spend more time playing online games and using connected devices, early conversations about digital kindness and online safety are essential. This guide from Internet Matters provides practical, age-appropriate advice to help parents and carers discuss cyberbullying calmly and constructively - without making children feel defensive or overwhelmed.

 Key Takeaways for Parents & Carers

• Before You Chat:

  • Keep it bite-sized: Children aged 6–10 have shorter attention spans. Aim for multiple short, casual chats rather than one long, formal lecture.

  • Choose neutral settings: Conversations often flow better in low-pressure situations—such as during a car journey, while walking home, or over dinner.

  • Know the tools: Familiarise yourself with the reporting, blocking, and safety settings on the games or apps your child uses (such as Roblox or Minecraft).

• During the Discussion:

  • Ask open-ended questions: Instead of asking "Did that make you sad?", try asking "How did that make you feel?" to encourage sharing.

  • Stay calm and reassuring: Reassure your child that they will not be in trouble or lose access to their device if they report mean behaviour online.

  • Use concrete examples: Relate scenarios to their favourite games or everyday playground situations so the concepts feel relevant to them.

• After the Conversation:

  • Watch for subtle signs: Behavioural shifts - such as sudden mood changes during screen time, device avoidance, or social withdrawal - can indicate an issue.

  • Keep checking in: Make digital safety a regular topic of conversation so your child knows they can come to you whenever something bothers them.