5 Ways to Slay with Confidence in Style

Days could go by without the unsettling thought in our heads saying that we are not enough. On some days, we might see ourselves in the mirror as somebody charismatic, with a clear face and bright eyes. Then, like falling into cold water, we might see ourselves with skin that’s dull and rough, spotty and red, painfully wondering why we’re not her, why we’re not him—basically, why am I me?

To get out of that cave is a process, but it can be done. With that in mind, here are a few ways to get that confidence boost that will keep you slaying every minute, every moment!

1. Accept

Embrace your quirky smiles and the subtle way you crinkle your nose. At the end of the day, you’re you! You’re special just the way you are.

2. Take Inspiration

Is there someone you’ve always looked up to? What is it about them do you find admirable? It is fine to wish to have the attributes that they possess, but never forget that you are a unique being on your own.

3. Choose Optimism

Staying in an environment which hurt you in the first place would not help you heal. Surround yourself with people who appreciate you for who you are.

4. Start Small

Like any process, small steps could lead to bigger heights and wider horizons! Start by identifying a part of you that you appreciate and keep that in mind.

5. Smile

Radiate your inner beauty by sharing one of the most beautiful curves in your body. Those pearls are not only meant for chewing, you know. Smile! It’s a contagion of delight.

Face the mirror. Look at that human being who breezes through every single day with hard work and passion. Who is that? That’s you. Let your reflection hand you the lenses to see that you are amazing because you do you. That’s the most certain thing in this world of uncertainties, now and for always.