The Distance Between Us is a personal memoir by Reyna Grande, chronicling her journey as a young girl living in México who is forced to grow up in poor conditions and struggles to live with (and without) her family. Her father seeks work across the U.S.-México border in the "Land of the Free," hoping to provide for his wife and children when unforeseen events lead him to start a new family in America. After a long absence, he returns with a big surprise: Reyna's new baby sister, Betty. As Reyna and her younger brother, Carlos, learn to accept their new sister, the relationship between their mother and father come to an explosive end. Seeing a way out of poverty, Reyna agrees to go with her father to the United States and endures the long, painful journey of crossing the border. The story follows Reyna and her siblings as they settle into their new home in Los Ángeles and navigate a new culture and way of life. Through setbacks, neglect, poverty, and hardships, Reyna must grapple with her new identity as an undocumented immigrant trying to make a name for herself and her family.
Guiding Question: How does Reyna Grande’s experience as an undocumented minor fleeing from México to live in the United States illustrate the trials and tribulations of the immigrant experience?
Themes: Immigration, xenophobia, poverty, culture, assimilation, diaspora, struggles, setbacks, perseverance, family dynamics, identity, sacrifice, hope, displacement, code-switching, belonging, community, injustice, self-discovery, goals and ambitions, trauma, womanhood, coming-of-age, class privilege, racial privilege, sexism, racism, politics, misogyny, generational trauma.
"I learned that bravery is not the absence of fear, but the courage to move forward despite it." — Reyna Grande