"Poto" in the garden
Robin added his own impressions to Sheila's account:
I can remember my father coming home from work and out into the garden and calling out “Poto, Poto, Willy willy woto, aw haw haw haw haw” [rising with a final fall]. I was called Poto by all the Burmese (and English too), which is Burmese for “fat boy”. In Burma it is thought to be rather an accolade to have a fat child, so this was quite a compliment. I mostly remember him wearing what he called a sweatshirt, which was a heavy aertex shirt, and I remember the smell of sweat and perspiration on him. My memory is that he came from work like that, but I’m sure they had to wear European suit and tie at work.
I remember playing a lot with the servants children, walking around with them in and out of the house, out a lot in the big garden, and going down to their quarters. Also, in the garden, my father was very keen on aerial ropeways, like the one I set up in this garden (Carriage Drive), and his was very fine, well up above the ground. You had to climb up some sort of ladder and get into a seat and away you went. I must have been about 4 or 5 and it seemed a huge long distance, very exciting and very fast. That was super.
It was a wonderful life for Europeans out there. He and my mother used to play a lot of tennis, in fact we had a tennis court at one of the houses. I can remember my father playing tennis, presumably because it was in our own garden, and we used to go and visit them when they broke off because they used to have delicious lime juice to drink then, made from fresh limes.
We used to rent houses, Europeans tended not to own houses but rent them because when you went on leave to Britain for 3 months you abandoned this place, and if you rented a house you didn’t have to do anything to look after it.
As I say it was very, very fortunate to be Europeans there, because my father was a member of the sailing club, and I can just remember being taken off in his sailing dinghy, but I didn’t like that because I banged myself very soon after getting in and was very nesh and cried and wanted to be taken out again, so I don’t think I did much sailing. I have a vague memory of being out on the water and just being paddled along, presumably in that boat, but not sailing.
Barbara on the tennis court
Jack and Guli with the crocodile shot by Jack. The skin adorned the hall floor of successive houses in Burma for years.
The sailing clubhouse was set up on what seemed to me enormously high stilts (although they were probably quite small really), so that it hung out over the water, and the loo was just a huge pipe that had a seat on the top and went down through the floor and discharged into the lake. Sanitation wasn’t that important then! I remember it so clearly because I was very frightened going into this to spend a penny or anything, because I was fearful of falling down this hole - which I could easily have done. It was a wide enough diameter for me to go all the way down I think!