CU West Coast Swing Dancers is a welcoming community of social dancers. Everyone interested in dancing together is encouraged to join us, regardless of background or experience. Leading and following are open to any gender, and anyone, whether a leader or follower, is welcome to ask someone to dance.
We ask that you stay mindful of personal space and the comfort of those around you. Personal hygiene matters. Please come in clean clothing with minimal scent. If you tend to sweat during dancing, it’s helpful to bring a towel or an extra shirt. Always wash your hands after using the restroom and use hand sanitizer when needed.
On the dance floor, be aware of others. Dance in your own slot and take care not to drift into another couple’s space. Watch out for everyone’s safety and comfort. A request to dance is for one song, and it’s always best to be polite whether you’re asking, accepting, or choosing to sit one out. If you decline a dance, we ask that you sit out that song instead of dancing with someone else.
While some people may meet a romantic partner through dance, that is not the purpose of our events. We are here to connect through music and movement, not for dating.
During lessons, please let the instructors teach and offer guidance. In social dancing, do not correct or critique your partner’s dancing. Everyone should be able to enjoy the moment and learn at their own pace.
We want CU West Coast Swing Dancers to feel welcoming and safe for everyone. If anything makes you uncomfortable, we encourage you to speak up. Our organizers are here to help. We reserve the right to give warnings or ask anyone to leave if they are not respecting the etiquette or safety expectations of the group. At any time and at any event, we may ask someone to leave if necessary to protect the well being of our community.
Smiled throughout the entire song.
Laughed it off when something went wrong.
Gracefully turned my mistake into a whole new step
Asked me to dance as a beginner
Shared my joy when I was able to do a new move – my good moment felt even better because of it.
Accepted my ignorance of certain topics, and didn’t judge me for not yet knowing something
Adjusted your dance style to accommodate my preferences.
Knew that I had a right to choose not to follow certain moves
Cared about my safety, paying attention to floor craft, looking behind me before sending me out and using the correct technique for turns and led body movements.
Experimented with me, respecting my ability to co-create and handle new situations safely
Took the time to work out my dance skills
Danced with me, rather than just with my level
Don’t be a know it all
Be open to suggestion
There’s a time for talking and a time for doing
Accept your current level of ability and knowledge
Be patient, encouraging and have a positive attitude
If you get upset, apologize.
Keep it fun