How to Help Guide
Mental Health Resource Page
This page is a set of resources with basic mental health principles and links. They are designed to be relevant across a broad audience but will be limited as each individual's experience, cultural background and language is unique. None of the resources or statements here are intended to substitute for an assessment from a mental health professional.
Why am I so Tired?
Why the global pandemic has worn us out and what to do about it.
Do you find yourself struggling with ability to concentrate or stay on task?
Are you being less productive even though your time working hasn't diminished?
Are you more easily frustrated and short tempered?
Check out the "Why am I so Tired page" for more information about what causes this and what to do about it!
To tired to read more information? Subscribe to "Shop Talk" a podcast with Brandi and James and listen to the first episode on this article. Available for Apple and Android
How Do I Know What Is Normal?
Normal Response to Crisis (or "It's okay to not be okay.")
Navigating a time of crisis changes every part of us - our behavior, emotions, thoughts and our spiritual life. While our reactions may surprise us, they may not be abnormal, given the situation. We may be experiencing a normal response to a crisis and in time, find that things resolve on their own.
There are many types of Crisis; Evacuations, war or global pandemic are some examples. It is wise to pay attention to our reactions during this time. If the symptoms we're experiencing don't subside or they worsen, more help may be needed.
Click here for common and normal immediate responses:
If these persist for a long time, worsen over time, or overwhelm your ability to live well, you may want to seek additional help.
Behavioral: Change in your sleeping or eating patterns, hyper-alertness, use of substances
Emotional: Anxiety/fear over your health or a loved one’s health, guilt for leaving field location, numb from being overwhelmed
Physical: Headaches, stomach problems, low energy, fatigue, and/or worsening of chronic health problems
Interpersonal: Heightened frustration and irritation, withdrawal from human connections, hypersensitivity, inappropriate sharing (i.e. "over-sharing") of experiences and thoughts
Cognitive: Difficulty concentrating and making decisions, spaciness (brain fog), confusion.
Work: Less productivity in your work, transition to a different location making work more difficult, over-engaged in work or finding it difficult to focus
Go to this page for a more in-depth list of common reactions to a crisis or trauma
How Can I Help?
Here are some basic mental health resources for how to help yourself or those you care about during a crisis.
Specific Topics
Help for Supervisors
How to Help Guide an SIL guide specifically for Supervisors to guide their staff during COVID-19 well.
All staff have been living with different levels of freedom due to lockdown, and all are dealing with unusual circumstances. As increased stress and environmental influences may result in decreased work productivity. More time doesn't equal more productivity. Everyone's response to stress can result in challenges to a person's ability to focus, concentrate and think clearly.
Anxiety during crisis
Guide to Anxiety; Managing our Internal World - a practical strategy for managing our thoughts to lower anxiety related to COVID-19.
Managing Emotions during a Pandemic - This article from the Headington Institute makes sense of how uncertainty affects us and what we can do about it.
Media Exposure and Anxiety - Tips from the Headington Institute for dealing with the overwhelming news stream.
Managing Stress and Burnout
Stress and Burnout - Resources from the Headington Institute. Start with their "How stressed are you?" assessment to see where you are now.
If you are concerned about stress levels , for yourself or others, visit the Seeking Help page in this Guide.
To Leave or to Stay?
A Message to Those Who Stay and Those Who Go - Help with the hard decisions and consequences related to staying or leaving a field location We all need grace and God's perspective, whatever the decision.
Stay or Leave - How to make and cope with your decision amidst COVID-19.
Grief and Loss
Change involves loss, and loss needs to be grieved. Give yourself permission to grieve in whatever way is best for you.
Grief Resource Folder - from SIL Care and Wellbeing.
Faith Nurture Network -Tips for helping children process grief and loss.
Depression and Shame
Depression Guide - An overview of depression, its signs and symptoms and practical steps to combat it. For some people, the added losses, isolation and unavailability of normal stress relievers because of COVID-19 may trigger depression.
Honor and Shame In COVID-19 - People in different cultures are responding to the physical and mental health issues from COVID-19 in different ways
Other Language Resources
COVID-19 Spanish Resources - lots of health resources in Spanish (Scroll down past the English links.)
Trauma Healing Resources - Available in French, Spanish or English and can be used in person or online (more information below).
Everyone has their own 'hard' right now. Listening well to each other helps us get through.
Tools to use
Healing The Wounds of Trauma Resources
Beyond Disaster Folder - Trauma Healing Institute response material, designed to be used as a self-guide or to go through with a friend or group after a crisis or disaster. Available in French, Spanish or English and can be used in person or online.
Healing from the Distress of the COVID-19 - A Trauma Healing lesson for adults facing the challenges of the COVID-19 crisis. You do not have to be a Trauma Healing Institute facilitator to use this material--it can be used in person or online (also French and Spanish).
Peace Be Still; A Kid's Guide to Crazy Days - A COVID-19 lesson for families to go through together.
Healthy Practices in Hard Times
Every part of us is affected in a crisis. Caring for ourselves and others calls for paying attention to our bodies, our minds and our souls. Even if you don't feel particularly stressed now, establishing healthy practices may be protective as the crisis continues. Here are some resources to choose from:
From Isolation to Invitation - A 14 day devotional from Novo for focusing your spiritual life amid isolation.
Tips for Maintaining Sanity Amidst the Covid-19 Pandemic- Practical suggestions from Sentwell for managing your internal and external world.
Healthy Isolation - More tips for living healthily during isolation.
Returning Well: Consider this your 2020 mini-debriefing guide - A series of debriefing questions, on a PDF, that you can complete altogether or just the parts that stand out to you. You can do it alone or with a good listener. It may be helpful to download it to your computer and fill it out as a way of processing.
Practical ways to help yourself and your family amidst crisis:
Post Crisis Tools: Other resources (videos, pdf's, step by step guides) on this site specifically on this topic
SIL Third Culture Kids, Care and Education Help Guide. The "How to Help Guide" From the TC & E Department.
6 Ways Parents Can Support Their Kids Through Coronavirus - From UNICEF, a psychologist's advice on how to help your children deal with the many emotions they may be experiencing now.
Helping your kids, teens and family through social isolation - Caring for teenagers (or maybe those young adults suddenly back home).
Sometimes it is hard to know when and where to refer a staff member or colleague for help. Here is a simple guide for what to do when you are concerned about the wellbeing of a colleague (or yourself).
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