How to Help Guide

Mental Health Resource Page

This page is a set of resources with basic mental health principles and links. They are designed to be relevant across a broad audience but will be limited as each individual's experience, cultural background and language is unique. None of the resources or statements here are intended to substitute for an assessment from a mental health professional.

Why am I so Tired?

Why the global pandemic has worn us out and what to do about it.

  • Do you find yourself struggling with ability to concentrate or stay on task?

  • Are you being less productive even though your time working hasn't diminished?

  • Are you more easily frustrated and short tempered?

Check out the "Why am I so Tired page" for more information about what causes this and what to do about it!

To tired to read more information? Subscribe to "Shop Talk" a podcast with Brandi and James and listen to the first episode on this article. Available for Apple and Android

How Do I Know What Is Normal?

Normal Response to Crisis (or "It's okay to not be okay.")

Navigating a time of crisis changes every part of us - our behavior, emotions, thoughts and our spiritual life. While our reactions may surprise us, they may not be abnormal, given the situation. We may be experiencing a normal response to a crisis and in time, find that things resolve on their own.

There are many types of Crisis; Evacuations, war or global pandemic are some examples. It is wise to pay attention to our reactions during this time. If the symptoms we're experiencing don't subside or they worsen, more help may be needed.

Click here for common and normal immediate responses:

If these persist for a long time, worsen over time, or overwhelm your ability to live well, you may want to seek additional help.

  • Behavioral: Change in your sleeping or eating patterns, hyper-alertness, use of substances

  • Emotional: Anxiety/fear over your health or a loved one’s health, guilt for leaving field location, numb from being overwhelmed

  • Physical: Headaches, stomach problems, low energy, fatigue, and/or worsening of chronic health problems

  • Interpersonal: Heightened frustration and irritation, withdrawal from human connections, hypersensitivity, inappropriate sharing (i.e. "over-sharing") of experiences and thoughts

  • Cognitive: Difficulty concentrating and making decisions, spaciness (brain fog), confusion.

  • Work: Less productivity in your work, transition to a different location making work more difficult, over-engaged in work or finding it difficult to focus

  • Go to this page for a more in-depth list of common reactions to a crisis or trauma

How Can I Help?

Here are some basic mental health resources for how to help yourself or those you care about during a crisis.

Specific Topics

Help for Supervisors

  • How to Help Guide an SIL guide specifically for Supervisors to guide their staff during COVID-19 well.

  • All staff have been living with different levels of freedom due to lockdown, and all are dealing with unusual circumstances. As increased stress and environmental influences may result in decreased work productivity. More time doesn't equal more productivity. Everyone's response to stress can result in challenges to a person's ability to focus, concentrate and think clearly.

Anxiety during crisis

Managing Stress and Burnout

  • Stress and Burnout - Resources from the Headington Institute. Start with their "How stressed are you?" assessment to see where you are now.

  • If you are concerned about stress levels , for yourself or others, visit the Seeking Help page in this Guide.

To Leave or to Stay?

Grief and Loss

Change involves loss, and loss needs to be grieved. Give yourself permission to grieve in whatever way is best for you.

Depression and Shame

  • Depression Guide - An overview of depression, its signs and symptoms and practical steps to combat it. For some people, the added losses, isolation and unavailability of normal stress relievers because of COVID-19 may trigger depression.

  • Honor and Shame In COVID-19 - People in different cultures are responding to the physical and mental health issues from COVID-19 in different ways

Other Language Resources

Everyone has their own 'hard' right now. Listening well to each other helps us get through.

Tools to use

Healing The Wounds of Trauma Resources

  • Beyond Disaster Folder - Trauma Healing Institute response material, designed to be used as a self-guide or to go through with a friend or group after a crisis or disaster. Available in French, Spanish or English and can be used in person or online.

  • Healing from the Distress of the COVID-19 - A Trauma Healing lesson for adults facing the challenges of the COVID-19 crisis. You do not have to be a Trauma Healing Institute facilitator to use this material--it can be used in person or online (also French and Spanish).

  • Peace Be Still; A Kid's Guide to Crazy Days - A COVID-19 lesson for families to go through together.

Healthy Practices in Hard Times

Every part of us is affected in a crisis. Caring for ourselves and others calls for paying attention to our bodies, our minds and our souls. Even if you don't feel particularly stressed now, establishing healthy practices may be protective as the crisis continues. Here are some resources to choose from:

Practical ways to help yourself and your family amidst crisis:

Sometimes it is hard to know when and where to refer a staff member or colleague for help. Here is a simple guide for what to do when you are concerned about the wellbeing of a colleague (or yourself).

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