Have you ever bullied someone else? Think about why you did it and how you were feeling at the time. Did you want to make yourself feel better? Did you feel the need to be better than anyone else? Did hurting others really make you feel better? If so, WHY? You might think that others will like… - Read More
Are You Being Bullied? How to Deal with Bullies
If you’re being bullied there’s a lot you can do. While different tactics work for different people, the first thing you should do is try to work it out yourself. Depending on how bad the bullying is (and as long as you don’t feel at risk, scared or physically threatened) you might want to try and… - Read More
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Bullying Bystanders… Become Upstanders
Bystanders are kids and teens who witness bullying and cyberbullying in action, who stand by and watch, who videotape it and make it viral ... and WHO DO AND SAY NOTHING. Very often they don’t know what to do. They’re afraid of retaliation or fear that their own group will exclude them for helping… - Read More
Bullying in Schools | Change Your School Community
Anyone who goes to school knows all to well about bullying. In a national report, 1 in 6 students reported that they’ve either been the victim of some form of bullying or, witnessed others being bullied. And 1 in 8 have experienced bigotry and name calling. You’re not alone!!! It’s a reality and it… - Read More
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Harassment and Teen Dating Violence
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International Suicide Prevention Resource
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Suicide Is Not The Answer - Save A Life
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Definition: The ability to establish and maintain healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals and groups. This includes communicating clearly, listening actively, cooperating, resisting inappropriate social pressure, negotiating conflict constructively, and seeking and offering help when needed. (www.casel.org)
The Why: Learning the skills necessary to have healthy relationships is critical to our happiness and success. As students will learn from both home and in person, building relationships early on will be crucial. Family relationships are also changing since the start of the COVID-19 pandemic. We hope you find the resources, tips, and ideas helpful and you navigate social-emotional learning with your child.
As with any skill, mastery takes regular, intentional practice. Fortunately, the more confident and competent a young person becomes with the skills, the more “transferable” the skills will be. This means that these same skills will be more readily available down the road, in other situations, when your child encounters challenging social or work situations.
PARENT GUIDE TO RELATIONSHIP SKILLS
Click on the links below the pictures to access the lessons.
This pandemic will be painful personally, financially, spiritually, and all-directionally. We recognize that people will be hurt in more ways than Kindness can cure. Along the way, we must also exercise empathy for those who are most immediately impacted and LISTEN to the advice of experts who have dedicated their lives to help prepare us for this very thing: wash hands, social distance, don’t overbuy, don’t overburden the system, and don’t spread fear or misinformation.
That said, we are capable of widespread compassion. We must demonstrate abundant hope. We will combat the spreading shadow with the fullness of our light. We may not all be doctors, but we can each use our platform to make Kindness a bit more normal and the world a bit more bright.
It won’t solve the sickness, but it may help the soul.
Below you will find 30 challenges for you to complete starting August 17. Track your progress HERE. Each weekday, visit this site and complete your challenge, take a picture, and post on social media with the hashtags #BeKindAllisonSELC, #BeKindClemensHS or #BeKindSteeleHS. Share your challenges so we can celebrate you and follow your journey of character development and kindness.
Humans are social beings. We were made to thrive in packs and work together. No matter how introverted or extroverted you are, everyone of us has a variety of unique relationships in our lives. Those could be family relationships, friendships, romantic relationships with teachers, administrators, counselors, and other authority figures.
But how do we know if we are practicing healthy relationships? Relationships building takes two people doing their own part to contribute to the relationship. But what is your part? And what are the signs you may be engaging in an unhealthy relationship? Take the quiz below to see where you stand on relationship skills!
Over the past few weeks, many of us have experienced less face to face interaction with other humans. Our class starting school online. Our friends may be stuck at home. Everything is closed! This means many of you are moving online to fulfill your academic and social needs. But, remember! It is important to practice healthy relationships online. Here are some tips about Netiquette for your online school work and suggestions for your interactions with your peers.
Enter your full name to identify yourself (First & Last). Those not identifying themselves properly may be dismissed.
Mute your microphone when you are not speaking. This ensures everyone can hear the presenter.
Click the "Raise Your Hand" button if you would like to comment or ask a question. When your teacher recognizes you, unmute and speak.
When you are finished speaking let the class know by saying "that's all" or "I'm done" and re-muting your microphone.
Be aware of your surroundings. If your background is distracting (people walking around, pets, etc.) considering muting your video as well.
Dress appropriately for school.
If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.