How to Score a Prom Date
By Kathryn McDougall, Staff Writer
May 15th, 2024
Prom night: a magical evening that’s the highlight of the high school experience. But before you can hit the dance floor, you need a date. Whether you’re aiming to go with your crush, your best friend or someone new, here are some tips to help you find a prom date and make the night unforgettable.
Start Early: Don’t wait until the last minute to ask someone to prom. Starting early gives you more time to plan and ensures your potential prom date doesn’t already have plans. Aim to ask around a month before the event. This also shows that you’re thoughtful and considerate.
Be Confident: Confidence is key. When you approach someone, do so with a smile and positive attitude. Even if you’re nervous, try to project confidence. Remember, it’s flattering to be asked to prom, so your invitation will likely be appreciated.
Know Your Audience: Think about the person you want to ask. What are their interests? What’s their personality like? Tailor your approach to suit them. If they love grand gestures, plan something creative. If they’re more low-key, a simple and heartfelt request might be best.
Get Creative: Make your promposal memorable. Whether it’s with a clever sign, a scavenger hunt, or a flash mob, a creative promposal can make the moment extra special. Just be sure it’s something your potential date would enjoy and feel comfortable with.
Be Direct but Thoughtful: Sometimes, the best approach is the simplest. Just ask! Find a private moment and simply say, “I’d love to go to prom with you. Would you like to be my date?” Being straightforward can be refreshing and shows that you respect the other person’s time and feelings.
Consider going with a Friend: If your’re not into the idea of a romantic date, why not ask a friend? Going with someone you’re already comfortable with can redure stress and ensure you have a great time. Prom is about having fun, and what’s more fun than dancing the night away with your bestie?
Be Respectful: If the person you ask declines, be gracious and respectful. Everyone has their own reasons, and it’s important to handle rejection maturely. Thank them for their honestly and move on. There are plenty of other great people to ask.
Stay true to Yourself: Above all, be yourself. Don’t try to be someone you’re not just to impress someone. The right date will appreciate you for who you are.
Prom is a night to remember, and finding the right date can make it even more special. So, take a deep breath, follow these tips, and go for it! Whether you end up with a romantic interest, a friend, or decide to fly solo, the most important thing is to enjoy the night and make memories that will last a lifetime.
Happy Prom Season Everyone!