It can often be hard for both adults and children alike to discern the difference between bothering, conflict, and bullying.  Below you will find some of the characteristics of each of these behaviors.  It is possible for one of these behaviors to turn into another over the course of time, however in general we can usually separate a behavior into one of the three categories.  It is important for both adults and children to be able to discern between these three actions as it will help to inform the next steps you take.