On November 5, 2014, at 2:16 in the afternoon Holmes sent me a text. A text he sent almost daily. It was a simple text. It said, “Hows was your day Sweetie.” I didn’t respond right away. It was nearly 2 hours later when I responded. I regret that now. That I did not respond when I saw that text. I was busy working, I was gonna respond later when I had a minute. When I did respond, it was too late. At 2:23pm, that same afternoon, my husband was in a car accident and was killed. He had sent me a text at 2:16, and less than 10 minutes later, he was gone.