Every story has a benefit.
There are so many things happen around us. Many of them go unnoticed, some we notice. Every life is a story sometimes it is fast paced and sometimes like a sloth. But in any way we can not abandon it. We can always learn from anyone, their work and their lives. They have a story, broken past, great present or fabulous future. Get this, every story has a benefit.
In a bigger perceptive, this negativity can be summarized in three ways.
Individuals: You feel negative when you have something at your hand and unable to get over it, reason is whatever. May be you have taken something beyond your abilities. May be you are into another state of mind. So first thing first, never estimate your powers low. Break your works into parts, set time boundaries. Take a pause, think any other possible way. Mind it if you start exploring the possibilities it starts emerging.
To others: You envy for your neighbors car, or jealous about the position of your colleague, or the success of your friend, you feel low when you see someone above you. Second scenario, you see somebody in pain, and feel distressed or you feel negative about other people spreading the negativity. Remember negativity can not be answered with negativity, in algebra, minus and minus becomes plus, but folks, it is life, not algebra. People, when in problems[social, career,environmental,situational, religious], show negative behavior. Help them to come out of it if you can else take your way, you should not feel negative with the negativity of others, Mantra is this.
Toward circumstances: When it is raining and you are walking, safeguard your belongings(cellphone, wallets, laptops etc), or rush to a shelter, but please, don’t complain the rain. Does a crowd make you went off mood? Folk, see the flip side, explore the unknown, exchange your knowledge and grow your network. Don’t let circumstances change you, take the best adoption, and make use of that circumstance.
Never lose your hope.
If you are feeling that there are no choices left. I strongly suggest you to keep on moving.
This is a lesson from the chess. The pawn is the smallest one on the chess board. But when it keeps on going, saving itself, in the 8th house it has the freedom to be a Queen, Bishop, Knight or a rook.
May be in current situations you are getting no breakthrough. Don't stop, remember this short story, and keep going.
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Every lock has its key, every problem has a solution, so your life too. If you feel any suffering in this life, believe me you are the solution yourself. Change the course of thinking this way.
God never gives a problem which you cannot handle.
Have Trust and be strong.
Summary of life in 'The Exponent'
That night I cried but shooting stars did not come back. Nocturnal creatures accompanied the night in her vigil. The darkness of the gloom and every night meets the morning. Finally at the end a new day is born, the day which is perceived to be one entity, is actually different for everyone. And every day in itself is different. The dawn had its glory of being a dawn. The scarlet sun was enthralling as charming lass. The sun, reason of life on earth, was ready to spread the light of love. The sun was crimson. Ah! It was a morning.
A boy and a girl in their early childhood, holding their hands, were running around a tree. The tree too was in adolescence stage with green leaves. The tree had shown all the signs of natural beauty and was only an onlooker for both the children. What catapulted them towards the tree in early morning may be a good question. Happiness on both faces, with no worries about the future, sometime in the play they started to hit each other without taking the pain whether it hurts or not. The worldly matter didn't affect them and it was never a subject of their talk. Also, they were amateur for those talks.
One day they entered the garden and the girl removed her slippers.
‘Why did you take off your slippers?’ asked the boy.
‘These cool droplets make me feel better’ she pointed towards the soft grass blades. Small crystals drops were clearly visible and the rays of the sun sometime reflected like numerous suns. The boy too removed the shoes and walked on the grass. Both of them saw each other and smiled, held the hand and started talking. The nous of the child has to be this way. Children do not hesitate if they feel happiness in something, they immediately express it. The tree was only the witness of the nature and this nature of the toddlers.
It was an everyday scene. As the first ray of sun touched the green leaves of the tree, the tree woke up. The boy came out from her home and walked towards the girl’s home where she was always waiting for him. Both of them chose the pathway to the garden. While moving they just picked up some stones and went to the well which was abandoned. Both saw their reflections in the water and threw the stones and laughed on their distorted images. They stood near the boundary wall of the garden and raced to touch the tree. The ponytail of the girl waved in the air. Sometime the boy comes first and sometime the girl. They did not talk about the competition, they just participated for fun, and never envied each other. The scene was so natural and lively. Both of them were untouched of sulkiness of the world. Without a hitch they shared with each other whatever happened in their homes previous night.
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Similar mental agencies, when start to accomplish a goal collectively, the chance of success becomes sure shot. One is thinking in coordination with the other. Another maintains the harmony with the first one. The ramification comes out as tight coupling of relative thought with freedom of everyone. Goal is shared and many minds have to work. They think to get the goal in a different way. Since multiple brains work in parallelism as one, the result comes out as a great vector, and this communion becomes a legion. All these are what Nash Equilibrium states. The similar minds centralise at common desire. The extreme desire of riches gets you toward riches. To achieve some goals the most desirous thing is, desire it passionately. Before you go for it, ask this simple and single question to yourself. “Do you really want it?” When an intensity of the desire harmonises your activities, balances your actions and keeps you towards your goal, when action plans are created and exhausted, some activity when done wisely gets you the goal. Clarity of goal and sincerity in action are the keys.
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The world is suffering, yes; the world is suffering by not recognising the people by themselves. Sometime we are not prepared. Sometime we do not understand our own capabilities. Self underestimation is self condemnation.
How could you start a race, if your muscles are not strong enough? How could you even dream to win if you do not sweat in ground? Before running you are not sure enough that your laces are properly fastened. To make your own stand first try to know where you are standing now? Once you know it then run as fast as you can.
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All it starts from faith and consistency
There is enough possibility that thousands of thoughts hovering in your mind might help you to accumulate the riches. You will have the jackpot if you have the right catch. Right catch means, the magnanimous capabilities within you, with greatness of your wisdom and recognising your true self and ultimately judging a right thought. But it is not simple as said. If you do catch the right thing then you must acknowledge it and must hold the key.
What is that key then?
“Persistence is the key”
and the next sentence is a suited example of it.
Even water makes the grooves into the rocks when it persistently flows over it.
Right catch is very important. Holding the key is also important but another important thing is; your thought must have a rightful purpose for you. Your thought can be great if it is benefactor of the human kind, great thoughts are nothing but the positive energy of God. It is proven in the history many a times. When God wants something great to happen, he sends great people. This is how it works. We are born to fulfil his wishes by doing our duties assigned by HIM.
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Lacking something and foreshadowing in our abilities, we spend doing nothing but making excuses and searching alibis. Along with these another most killing factor that stops you, is criticism. We do not like to be criticised. The most effective way to overcome our fear is ‘to bear it’. Most of the time, we get the desired wish after we embrace the fear.
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Yes, all of us are.
We run after that everything which can give us success. And we should do that. But do you know what is the best ingredient that certainly works for you?
It is you. Know yourself first, others later. In your scheme of things, you are the first element.
When the hunger of success is in you, you will forget your hunger and thirst. And those who are quenched for thirst of success are often rewarded by this world.
Work alone so hard that one day the whole world may stand for you.
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Your colleague, your superior in your office or your manager, your neighbour and other person.
If your answer is in above list, you are perfectly wrong. Nobody is competitor of you other than you. So thrive now to what you can do better than you did yesterday. Keep growing and learning everyday because when the competition is with yourself it is VERY essential to WIN.
You have competition every day because you set such high standards for yourself that you have to go out every day and live up to that.
-Michael Jordan
Cheers!
Yes, happiness now has a new face, new definition. Letting go the people away from you and no remorse after them. Those who leave you for a reason had come to you for a reason. And when you are treated as an option you should free up yourself to let them know that they too are not mandatory.
Our minds are to handle surge of pressure, not a continuous pressure. It makes you week. While reading these lines think about that someone whom you are still thinking about and they are not with you. They are happy with their life, then why you are not?
Those who want to leave you will leave you with a single excuse, while those who want to be with you, despite of your thousands of wrongs, will be with you.
Cherish them who are your happiness partner, love them who are with you now.
No one can take your life out of you, it is your life.
Cheers!
Yes, we can.
Simplest things happen very simply, but we overlook. Coveting for a car, we forget to enjoy our bike. Yes, it is true. Life is a light weight championship which we use to burdened like heavy weight.
What is this weight made of?
This is just the weight of our expectation, our never ending desires which sometimes makes our survival more difficult.
So, friends, throw your burden off, smile a lot. People are beautiful, world is beautiful.
It is an easy life. Say it loud, live well.
We use to hear this more frequently that we should think different. and we start to follow without understanding its hidden and deep meaning. ‘Think different’ does not imply thinking of no use. We often spot many bizarre people around with there different thinking and style, but how does it helpful to others and mankind.
Another clause ‘work-life-balance’ baffled me a lot. We run after accomplishing it and lose our mental peace. Actual meaning of this phrase is, you have to balance it, or try to balance it, not dying for it.
Remember when you are not at peace, you will make more mistakes and bad decisions.
Reading something daily opens up new ideas and expands span of your thinking. I have a real life example to demonstrate how motivational reading helps you to reach to your desired goals.
When you shot an arrow, you always target a little above the Bull’s eye. The same happens in our real lives, Reading something motivational keeps raising our hopes to reach to desired goals.
You never know what word, what story will change your life , so keep reading and stay motivated.
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