Alli's Angle
The Dress Code: Helpful or Hurtful?
by Allison Iliff
The first time I was hit by the dress code was in fifth grade. The principal came into our classroom on a warm day and asked all the girls in the room to stand up with their arms down. If the tips of your fingers were past the line of your shorts, then you were asked to leave the room and had to change your clothes. This was a dehumanizing experience that happened again and again throughout my middle school years. From a young age, girls are taught to cover up so that they do not distract fellow classmates. The real question is, were the classmates being distracted in the first place? Has there ever truly been a time where someone could not get their work done because the girl next to them had her shoulders exposed? Why are the rules not the same for men? I have seen many men throughout the years wear clothes that I would’ve been sent home for. The rules are unclear and unfair.
I first found the rules unfair when I realized that different sized girls could get away with wearing things that others could not. People who were shorter could wear shorts that came up past their mid thigh because that's what fingertip length was for them. If you were tall, however, then you likely wore something that came well below the middle of your thigh. The dress code can cause people to be taken out of classrooms, be stopped in hallways, and be ridiculed for what they were wearing. It is an alienating experience that has caused anxiety in teenagers for many years.
So what can we do to fix this? I conducted an experiment at the beginning of the year where I sent out a Google form regarding the dress code to the senior class. My hypothesis was that more females would respond than males because the dress code pertains more to the female population. 70% of the respondents were female and 30% of the respondents were male. At the end of the survey, I asked the students if they found the dress code effective. Only one student said that they believed it was. Many people said that the dress code is targeted towards girls, it is biased, and find that the action of dress coding is more distraction than the clothes themselves. Senior Hannah O’Brian said, “I don’t find the school dress code effective because I don’t get why what a woman is wearing is offending or disrupting the class. If it isn’t hateful or offensive language etc, then there’s no need to dress code. I don’t believe teachers should be sexualizing the kids in the school. If a girl wants to wear a crop top, then she should be able to. I mean, some women wear certain outfits because it makes them feel confident and good about themselves. Shoulders aren’t a distraction. The school should be worrying about more major issues than worrying about what top a student is wearing.”
The dress code in itself is a distraction--not the clothes that students are wearing. If we were to loosen up the rules, and make it fair for the whole student population, then the school atmosphere would be much better. I propose that any article of clothing that promotes vulgar language can be dress coded. Students should be allowed to wear crop tops, so long as they are an appropriate length. Spaghetti straps should be allowed, as it is a comfortable shirt for the spring and summer, and unless the shorts are obscenely short, then there should not be a problem. The fingertip rule has never been fair, and there never will be a way to make it fair. If we made these changes, then there would no longer be anxiety in students; wondering if what they are wearing could be considered a distraction to people, class time would no longer be taken away from students, and the overall confidence of students would rise. The dress code has been a serious problem regarding the mental health of teenagers for years, and it is time we put a stop to it.