Tips for responsible political discourse

By Aria Fugler

Political discussion can become extremely heated and less useful for both parties. However, if participants remain calm, listen and phrase their arguments intentionally, they can have a productive discussion that will leave both parties with more knowledge than they came with. With election season approaching, it's important now more than ever to discuss political differences with a level head. 

It’s vital to keep in mind that regardless of passionate interest in certain topics, self-control and eloquence should be used to develop arguments and discussions among all groups regarding politics.

Ask questions and be curious.

First and foremost, whether it be through investigating and developing your own stances on politics or seeking to understand others, it is important to curiously immerse yourself in various perspectives and sources to gain a more rounded understanding of the world of politics.

Yet, truly asking meaningful questions requires an authenticity to be paired with it. Questioning ideas with phrasing like “Why on earth would you think that?” or “Do you even know what you are talking about?” are posed to attack or demean them and don’t encapsulate an openness of mind to different ideas.

Instead asking questions like “How did you arrive at this conclusion?” and “What are some influences that have aided in developing this perspective?” request a genuine response and a maturity in broadening your perspective through navigating other ideas fully.

Genuinely listen.

Open ears. I cannot exaggerate this enough. Being truly receptive and attentive when observing the opposing point of view progresses the depth of conversation much more quickly and encourages those you are engaging with, to actually open up by creating a safer space.

Though you may find yourself strongly, moderately or even slightly disagreeing on subjects with those you are conversing with, it’s a natural fact that is a necessary element to politics. Recognizing the beauty of multifaceted solutions and ideas builds up the complexity and nuances of politics. 

There would be no need for these discussions if we all agreed on the same things. 

Think before you speak, but speak the truth.

Wording is key to directing the course of conversation. It’s completely understandable to possibly feel triggered or completely radical about certain issues, yet remaining clear-headed and competent in phrasing your thoughts clearly will help communicate your feelings accurately in a way that does not attack the opposing party.

Though wording is important, speaking the truth and being honest about your values and stances conveys your integrity and understanding of your views. It can also hold the people you are talking with accountable and encourage them to approach the conversation maturely as well. 

Don’t be afraid to express your truth, but do it in a way that truly conveys the heart of your stances in discourse and allow space for them to do the same.