Grit and Gratefulness are virtues that seem illusive yet are a vital sign indicating transformation in the life of a Christ-follower. Here is the challenge before us, how do we practice those virtues with certain diligence and fervor so that we might model this for our children? Perhaps it is not what we add, but what we surrender. Is there a pursuit or passion in our lives currently that is fueled by something we fear? I find confidence as I take the time to listen to the quiet voice of God’s Spirit, asking Him to reveal those fears that cause me to make decisions I end up regretting, and then believing He will replace those with truth. This act of grace expresses His great love. When I practice this in my relationship with Him, gratitude arises and then perseverance seems more available.
Our children are offered swift, effortless paths to meet their daily desires, whether it be from social media to Door Dash, from Amazon to AI. The neural pathways that result expect this expediency and work in them the opposite of patience, gratitude and grit. Let us consider, not simply in this soon to be holiday season, how to walk alongside our children, leading them to develop these virtues in practical ways. I would encourage you to extremely limit technology, especially smartphones.
As I talk with students on a daily basis, I become concerned about “group chats” and the amount of unnecessary and discouraging chatter that occurs, often approaching bullying. I have a full view of the struggles caused by these engagements and the lack of true conflict resolution offered. Let’s reclaim true connectedness, gracious friendship, and moments of quiet. Let’s take a stand as a community and pray for the power of the Holy Spirit to fill and lead our lives and those of our children. Join me, will you?
Mrs. Kristen Zaloom
Dean of Learning
Dear Friends of LCS,
As we approach the thanksgiving season, the question of “what are you thankful for?” often comes up with friends and family. When reflecting on the idea of gratitude, particularly Biblical gratitude, it seems to me that the more answerable question would be “What aren’t you grateful for?” At almost all levels of abstraction, every person, every event, every problem, every victory, every loss, everything in our lives contains something to be grateful for. When we look at the small things around us, and contemplate on how the Lord has orchestrated our lives, how could we not be grateful for everything?
In reflecting on this, I found myself grateful for difficult and painful things, for the way God used them to help me grow and develop further, however God showed me something else after. He not only showed me how I can be grateful for life’s difficulties, he then showed me that I was not sufficiently grateful for the good things I’ve been blessed with.
I found myself reflecting on my life, particularly my adolescence, and one thing stood out as a tremendous blessing which I was not sufficiently grateful for, and that would be my time at Loudonville Christian School. The gratitude for the teachers and faculty and donors was sorely lacking, and I see now the tremendous blessing LCS has been in my life, and continues to be. Christian Education, and LCS in particular, are gifts for which we should all be grateful for, and never take for granted.
"Oh give thanks to the LORD, for he is good, for his steadfast love endures forever!" (Psalm 107:1 ESV). Gratitude runs through all of Scripture, and it begins with God Himself. "Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights" (James 1:17 ESV). Each child who walks through our doors, each teacher who answers a call to serve, and each family that chooses to raise children inthe faith is a gift we did not earn.
Biblical gratitude is different from the way gratitude is expressed or thought of by the world. Not all appreciate giver behind the gifts. When ten lepers were healed, only one came back to thank Jesus (Luke 17:11–19 ESV). Thankfulness turns us back toward the Giver. That is why Paul tells believers to "give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you" (1Thessalonians 5:18 ESV), and to do everything, in word or deed, "in the name of theLord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him" (Colossians 3:17 ESV).In a Christian school, gratitude isn't confined to chapel. It shapes how a lesson is taught, how a student is corrected, and how a classroom treats its neighbor.Gratitude also looks forward. The psalmist writes, "We will not hide them from their children, but tell to the
coming generation the glorious deeds of the LORD" (Psalm 78:4 ESV).
Every gift, every prayer, and every hour given to Christian education is part of that telling. Thank you for standing with us so the next generation can know the God who gives good gifts. This thanksgiving, reflect on the blessing of being able to worship our Lord freely and without fear, and let us reflect on the blessing of being able to be a part of a ministry that builds the future of Christ’s church.
"Thanks be to God for his inexpressible gift!" (2 Corinthians 9:15)
With gratitude,
Stephen Stewart and the Board
Class of 2016
November 3rd: Upper School Class Meeting lunch
November 4th: 4th Grade to Schuyler Mansion & Fort Crailo 9:40-12:45
November 4th-6th: Scholastic Book Fair-details coming
November 6th: Grandparents Day; Dismissal at 11:40am; Chapel in sanctuary at 11am
November 11th: Veteran’s Day-NO SCHOOL
November 12th: In House Open House for Visiting Families
November 13th: All School Operations Christmas Child Project; End of Upper School Marking Period #1
November 16th: Christian Parent Learning Community #2 /6:30-8:30PM IN 318/320; 2nd Grade to Peregrine Assisted Living 10:30-11:45am
November 18th: Off campus service activity for 10th grade during periods 5 and 6
November 20th: End of Lower School Trimester #1
November 23rd-27th: Thanksgiving Break
It has been a FULL-filling start of the school year and Fall season. We have welcomed many new families and have seamlessly become a stronger community as we've championed our academics, athletics, retreats, and spiritual formation groups. Outside of school, we've had amazing support from our PTF and the many hands that helped to get the playground project finished! The winter months are headed our way, which means even more activities to grow as a community.
November 12th is our Open House, from 9am - 1pm. Spread the word! Share with others why you've chosen LCS for your children. Stay tuned for more pop-up events including the much anticipated Cookie Blessing, Wreath Fundraiser, and a few student-driven events to grow in our mission. Just a reminder, PTF meetings are the first Tuesday of each month with a new start time at 7:30 am so more can attend.
Check out details HERE! Looking forward to seeing all the fun creations this week!
Here is the link to the Parent Calendar: https://www.lcs.org/calendar
Here are some pivotal asks that build our student community:
That you would pray regularly with your student about what thoughts and actions are stemming from some fear (fear of not being liked, fear of not being seen as smart or beautiful, fear of not being acceptable to the group, etc.) that can cause them to act in ways that hurt. Asking God to reveal this to the student can be powerful. Asking HIm to remind them that their identity is in Him and not who they are, what they look like, or what they can accomplish; replacing those fears with truth.
Practicing response sets that work and are building, not tearing down. For example: “That is not my story to tell so I don’t want to talk about someone else’s situation without them.” Or “ I think we need to focus on what we are doing right now and get the job done.” Or “Let’s pray about that instead of talking about it because God will do a better job.” Or “Everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect so let’s not laugh at others when they get things mixed up.”
I love the THINK Rule: Unless something you plan to say or do meets these requirements, don’t say it or do it: T-is it true? H-is it helpful? I-is it inspiring? N-IS IT NECESSARY? K-is it kind? This may sound childish, but unless they can independently practice it, we need to continue to teach it.
Working on serving family, neighbors, and classmates, consistently learning to put the focus on others above ourselves is a fabulous way to build new neural pathways and confidence. I would love to see LCS students emptying the dishwasher without being asked, reading to a younger sibling instead of being on a phone, helping prepare dinner or make their own lunch, do their own laundry, or simply making their bed on a daily basis. Being an active contributor in the family builds responsibility, independence, and confidence which transfers to our school setting.
This is one of the most urgent: please consider removing your student from group chats. Even athletic team chats that are not supervised by an adult can be problematic. They are rarely productive in my experience as an educator and as a mom. They tend to produce negativity and the temptation to gossip.
Elementary Students:
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