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Self-control

Teaching self-control to kids is an important aspect of their development. “Think before you act.” Many of the instructions we give our kids are about self-control. Self-control means being able to resist immediate temptations and avoid acting on impulse to achieve more important goals, such as learning or being kind. By learning self-control, kids can make appropriate decisions and respond to stressful situations in ways that can yield positive outcomes. You can continue to use time-outs, but rather than setting a specific time limit, end time-outs when your child calms down. This helps kids improve their sense of self-control. And it's just as important to praise your child for not losing control in frustrating or difficult situations by saying things like, "I like how you stayed calm" or "Good job keeping your cool." Studies confirm that it’s possible. Kids benefit when we remove temptations and distractions, and create environments that reward self-restraint. Kids also need timely reminders to stay on track, and concrete, practical advice for staying motivated, overcoming obstacles, and sticking to a plan. 

Remember, teaching self-control is an ongoing process, and it's important to be patient and supportive as your child develops these skills. 

Swapnali Medhekar

Center Head

Kanakia Kids