Parent Behavior Expectations for Middle School Athletic Events

Respect

What it means: Treat athletes, coaches, officials, and other families with dignity and courtesy.

How to achieve it:

• Address concerns through proper channels (speak with coaches after the event, not during)

• Accept official decisions without arguing or yelling

• Use respectful language at all times

• Acknowledge good plays and sportsmanship from both teams

• Respect the athletic facility and property

• Avoid coaching from the stands—let the coaches direct the team

Responsibility

What it means: Take ownership of your actions and be dependable.

How to achieve it:

• Arrive on time and stay through the entire event

• Follow facility rules and posted guidelines

• Supervise younger children in your care

• Clean up after yourself (dispose of trash, return borrowed items)

• Communicate with your athlete about schedules and expectations

Positive Attitude

What it means: Approach the event with encouragement and optimism.

How to achieve it:

• Cheer for your athlete and the entire team, not just individual plays

• Encourage effort and improvement, not just winning

• Model enthusiasm and joy in youth sports

• Avoid complaining about playing time, coaching decisions, or officiating

• Help create a welcoming environment for all families

Self-Control

What it means: Manage your emotions and reactions appropriately.

How to achieve it:

• Stay calm when disappointed or frustrated with the outcome

• Keep your voice at a reasonable volume

• Avoid confrontational body language or gestures

• Do not use profanity or aggressive language

• Step away if you feel your emotions escalating

Team Support

What it means: Work together to build a positive community.

How to achieve it:

• Cheer for both your team and opponents

• Welcome families of opposing teams

• Offer assistance to other parents or volunteers

• Support all athletes, not just your own child

• Participate in team events and celebrations

• Help younger or less experienced families feel included

Consequences for Violations

Parents who consistently fail to follow these expectations may be asked to leave events or banned from future participation. Athletic programs are meant to teach life lessons—let's model those values together!

If you expect others to follow the code of conduct you must also follow the code of conduct.