The 7 Habits of Happy Kids

We would like to invite you to become familiar with The 7 Habits of Happy Kids, by Sean Covey, which is the foundation for the school counseling program at Greenbrier Elementary School. Our goal is to instill in each child core values which will help them make sound decisions all throughout life and help them discover their own greatness!

A great website to visit is: www.seancovey.com Look under the “KIDS” tab for games and other fun ways to explore the 7 Habits with your child!

Each month we will discuss a different habit during classroom counseling lessons. Please talk with your children about the 7 Habits as opportunities arise all throughout the year! If children hear this information from parents and school staff it becomes more powerful!

Habit 1— Be Proactive: You’re in charge of yourself.

· I have a “Can Do” attitude and always try my best at everything I do.

· I follow directions and do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking.

· I choose my actions, attitudes, and moods and don’t blame others for my wrongdoing.

Habit 2 — Begin with the End in Mind: Have a plan.

· I plan ahead and set goals for myself.

· I am prepared at all times.

· I think about how the choices I make now will affect my future.

· I think about the positive or negative consequences of my actions before I act.

Habit 3 - Put First Things First: Work first, then play.

· I do the things that I HAVE to do before I get to do the things that I WANT to do.

· I stay focused on what I’m doing and try to minimize distractions if I get off task.

· I spend my time on the things that are the most important.

Habit 4 - Think Win-Win: Everyone can win.

· I am a PROBLEM–SOLVER when an issue comes up with another person.

· I think about what other people want and not just what I want.

· I am kind to others and try to think of ways to make everyone happy.

Habit 5 - Seek First To Understand, Then to Be Understood: Listen before you talk.

· I listen to others without interrupting.

· I raise my hand when I want to speak and wait patiently to be called on.

· I don’t blurt out.

· I try to understand other people’s views and feelings, even if they are different from my own.

Habit 6 – Synergize: Together is better.

· I get along well with other people and work well in groups.

· I value the strengths of others and allow myself to learn from them.

· I know that by working together as a team we can get more done and come up with better solutions

than we could alone.

Habit 7 - Sharpen the Saw: Balance is best.

· I take care of my body by eating right, exercising, and getting enough sleep.

· I balance my time between school, community activities, family, and friends.

· I am always learning how to become a better person.