February and March Wellness: Building Inner Strength
February and March Wellness: Building Inner Strength
One of the most affirming things a child can hear is their parent or caregiver saying: 'I saw how hard you tried, and I noticed you didn't give up.'
This builds self-efficacy, which is the belief that they have the power to influence their own success.
Parent Resources from Child Mind Institute:
Self-Esteem: 12 Tips for Raising Confident Kids:
Positive Thinking: How to Help Kids With Negative Self-Talk
Growth Mindset: Helping Kids Learn From Failure
Mindfulness: The Power of Mindfulness for Kids
Love Yourself!
Students, try these activities to work on building a positive mindset and sense of self 🌟
🪞The "Mirror Challenge": Every morning, look in the mirror and say one thing you like about yourself. It could be your kind heart, your fast running, or even your cool hair!
🪣Be a "Bucket Filler": When you say something nice to someone else, it fills their "invisible bucket" and yours at the same time.
Praise the Effort, Not Just the Grade: Instead of saying "You're so smart," try "I'm so proud of how hard you practiced that math problem." This builds a growth mindset.
Model Self-Love: Kids are like little sponges 🧽. If they hear you speaking kindly about yourself, they’ll learn to do the same.
Building Resilience:💗
As we move through winter toward spring, let's focus on "springing" back up when things get tough.
I am a problem solver.
I can do hard things.
I am a kind friend.
I am growing every single day.
I have the power to choose my attitude.
I am enough, just as I am.
I am a problem solver.
Mistakes help my brain grow.
I can't do this...YET.
The "High/Low/Buffalo" Game: At dinner, ask about a "High" (something good), a "Low" (something hard), and a "Buffalo" (something random/funny). It normalizes that every day has ups and downs🎢.
Encourage Independence: Let them try small tasks on their own (like packing their own snack). Success in small tasks builds the "confidence muscle" for big ones.