Protective Factors Around Suicide

Elementary Topic-Becoming more aware of your feelings and what to do with those feelings

Must-dos at your school site:

Make readings/videos available to students and staff.

Parent Letter and/or Newsletter to be posted/distributed to parents.

Post/distribute hand-outs.

Recommended reading:

PreK - 3rd grade

  • When I'm Feeling Angry by Trace Moroney (PreK-1st) (Explains that feeling angry is OK, but that it isn't okay to hurt others with those feelings, and some ways to handle the feelings constructively)
  • Cool Down and Work Through Anger by Cheri Meiners (PreK-1st) (How to handle anger without hitting)
  • The Busy Beaver by Nicholas Oldland (PreK-2nd) (How to take care with others, as well as the world around us)
  • Making a Difference: Teaching Kindness, Character and Purpose by Cheri J. Meiners (PreK-2nd)
  • Zach Gets Frustrated by William Mulcahy (PreK-2nd) (Relationship skills around anger and learning responsibility for their actions when dealing with everyday situations)
  • The Way I Feel by Janan Cain (PreK-3rd) (Feelings) (*may be a great resource for a student with autism)
  • F Is for Feeling by Goldie Millar and Lisa A. Berger (PreK-3rd) (Uses "feeling" words in an alphabet format)
  • When Sophie Gets Angry--Really, Really Angry by Molly Bang (PreK-3rd) (What to do when you experience anger)
  • How are You Peeling? Food with Moods by Saxton Freymann and Joost Elffers (PreK-3rd) (Helps with identifying and verbalizing feelings)
  • Hold On To Your Horses by Sandra Tayler (K-2nd) (Impulse control and how to constructively use ideas)
  • Let's Be Enemies by Janice May Udry (K-2nd) (Conflict Resolution and the importance of friendships)
  • Talk and Work It Out by Cheri Meiners (K-3rd) (Conflict Resolution)
  • The Quarreling Book by Charlotte Zolotow (K-3rd) (Grumpiness happens in families, but a little kindness can go a long way.)
  • I Can Handle It by Laurie Wright (K-4th) (How to handle tricky situations)
  • The Worry Glasses: Overcoming Anxiety by Donalisa Helsley (K-4th) (Taking control of your own anxiety)
  • Bucket Dippers and Lids by Carol McCloud (2nd-7th)(understanding, kindness, self-control, resilience, empathy, and forgiveness)
  • What Were You Thinking: A Story About Learning to Control Your Impulses by Bryan Smith (3rd-6th) (Impulse control) (Recommended for students with ADHD)
  • The Blue Day Book for Kids by Bradley Trevor Grieve (Any age) (How to handle "blue" days and turning them around)
  • A Handful of Quiet by Thich Nhat Hanh (For Teachers/Staff)

4th- 6th grade

  • The Worry Glasses: Overcoming Anxiety by Donalisa Helsley (K-4th) (Taking control of your own anxiety)
  • I Can Handle It by Laurie Wright (K-4th) (How to handle tricky situations)
  • Wilma Jean the Worry Machine by Julia Cook (2nd-5th) (Tools for anxiety)
  • Bucket Dippers and Lids by Carol McCloud (2nd-7th)(understanding, kindness, self-control, resilience, empathy, and forgiveness)
  • What Were You Thinking: A Story About Learning to Control Your Impulses by Bryan Smith (3rd-6th) (Impulse control) (Recommended for students with ADHD)
  • What to do When You Are Scared and Worried: A Guide for Kids by James J. Crist (4th-8th) (A book for advice, reassurance, and ideas with fears and anxiety)
  • The Blue Day Book for Kids by Bradley Trevor Grieve (Any age) (How to handle "blue" days and turning them around)

Middle and High School

Disclosure: Some middle/high school readings contain language and/or sensitive topics that need previewing by school before given to youth.

  • Bucket Dippers and Lids by Carol McCloud (2nd-7th)(understanding, kindness, self-control, resilience, empathy, and forgiveness)
  • What to do When You Are Scared and Worried: A Guide for Kids by James J. Crist (4th-8th) (A book for advice, reassurance, and ideas with fears and anxiety)
  • Reasons to Stay Alive by Matt Haig (9th-12th) (A personal story about depression and the tools used to overcome it)
  • Bullycide: True Stories Exposing the Influence Bullying has on Youth Suicide Vol. 2 by Alexander Scott
  • Beyond Surviving: A Compilation of Stories from Survivors of Suicide Loss by Survivors of Suicide Loss
  • Rage: True Stories by Teens About Anger by Laura Longhine

Staff/Parents

Videos:

Exploring Feelings (PreK-1st)

Give Yourself a Hug (PreK-1st)

Count, Breath, Relax (PreK-2nd)

StoryBots Feelin' Sad or Blue (PreK-2nd)

The Feeling Song (PreK-3rd)

Belly Breath (PreK-3rd)

Sesame Street: Talk about Your Feelings (PreK-3rd)

Word on the Street: Relax (PreK-3rd)

McGruff: Anti-Bullying (1st-5th)

Just Breathe (Elementary)

Youth Suicide Prevention (Upper Elementary, Middle and High School)

Suicide Prevention Hotline (Upper Elementary, Middle and High School)

How to Help a Friend Who is Suicidal (Middle and High School)

Permanent Decisions (Middle and High School)

Break the Silence (Middle and High School)

Teen Suicide Prevention (High School)

Let’s Go (High School)

Teen Dating Violence PSA (High School)

Hand-outs:

5 Steps to Managing Big Emotions (Elementary)

9 Calm Down Ideas for Kids (Elementary)

Calm Down Yoga for Kids (Elementary)

Calm Down with Take 5 Breathing (Elementary)

Possible Warning Signs for Suicide (All students)

Sources of Support Wheel (An activity for Middle and High School)

How to Help A Friend (High School)

Suicide Prevention Resources for Teens (High School)

40 Developmental Assets (All students)

Building Protective Factors (Staff)

13 Reasons Why; Talking Points (Staff, Middle and High School)

Risk Factors & Protective Factors (Staff)

Resources:

LockItUp-Gun Safety (Parent Resource)

Below the Surface (Staff Resource)