FAQ

We often get many questions during IEP meetings or parent-teacher conferences, here's a list of topics you might have been wondering about and want answers to.

What is American Sign Language (ASL)? Is it signed English?

ASL is a language of the deaf community in the US. It came together from French Sign Language (LSF), Plains Sign Language (Native Americans), Martha's Vineyard Sign Language, and other local sign systems. From 1817, when the first formal school for the deaf was established, ASL has been constantly evolving and shifting just like any other language. English is a completely different language. When signing in English order, it is not ASL.

I frequently voice while signing, is that OK?

Not really. That's called Simultaneous Communication (SimCom). Often when someone is learning ASL, it is difficult to "drop" English and stop voicing. When voicing and signing at the same time, it is literally impossible to form articulate concepts in both languages at the same time. Often ASL gets reduced and most deaf people have a hard time understanding SimCom as many words and information are missing.

My child cannot speak. Does that mean they cannot read?

Not true at all! Regardless of your child's hearing level and speaking ability, your child can learn to read without knowing the sounds.

My child is deaf. Does that mean I will have to take care of them forever?

Not at all. Many deaf children grow up to be successful and productive adults. Only a very few have additional disabilities that will require extra support. Most deaf people cherish their independence.

The medical professionals said I need to do the Audio Verbal therapy before using ASL or my child will never learn how to speak.

No. We understand that you want to communicate with your child in your native language. Everyone does. However, with your deaf child, they need language more than anything else during first few years of their lives. Speech therapy is not a language, it is a method to teach the parts of spoken language. Many deaf children become proficient in copying speech. With ASL, they understand what they are saying. Many deaf children can learn how to speak while learning ASL.

I can only sign a little. I can't communicate with my deaf child?!

Don't worry about your signing level. Seriously, don't. Your deaf child will appreciate and love you for trying. As long as you keep on practicing, including your child in conversations the best you can, and ask them about their day, they will thrive.

My child hears me fine.

Are you sure? Many deaf children become adept in faking. They also use body language and social cues to act appropriately in different situations without really knowing what is going on. Ask your child if they know your name, other than "Mom" or "Dad". What about their siblings' names? You will be surprised. Many of our students call their siblings "BOY" or "GIRL". Without truly seeing the names, words, and explicit concepts being explained to them, many deaf children go through the motions and do not realize what they are missing.

Can my child learn how to drive?

Of course. Research and statistics have proven that deaf drivers are better than hearing, due to less distractions and heightened vision.

What kind of jobs can my child expect to have?

Anything! At HMS we provide transition services where each student will have the opportunity to explore what they desire to become. Many deaf people have gone on to become doctors, lawyers, teachers, professional athletes, chefs, scientists, artists, and many more. The sky is not the limit.

How or where can I learn ASL?

We offer free ASL classes at our building. There are some free online courses and apps you can learn from (check our Resource page). You can also take college ASL courses. DEAF, inc a local deaf advocacy organization also offers ASL classes at a low cost.