Moving up - Conner Middle School
The transition from elementary to middle school is often an exciting, yet nerve-racking time for students and parents. Best case scenario would be that each incoming 6th grader feels prepared to enter middle school. We can greatly enhance students’ comfort level with this change by addressing to common concerns that arise in middle school and equipping them with skills necessary to be successful. This website is full of helpful information about transitioning to Conner Middle school. Below is more information that may help with the transition. Please check out the video page for helpful videos about tranitioning to middle school and what it is like being a CMS student. Also, don't forget to check out the FAQ page for more infromation. The information below should help to make the transition to middle school less scary and stressful.
Standards-based Grading
Traditional grading is very subjective, and standards-based grading is one way to address that. Standards-based reporting is designed to only reflect true evidence of learning, parents get a clear picture of what the student has or hasn’t mastered without the influence of other factors, such as effort and attitude. Standards-based grading (SBG) is a system of education which focuses on student learning and grades based on demonstrated understanding of specific concepts. Instead of a simple letter, students receive grades in multiple different learning targets and can see which concepts they understood well and which they need to improve on.
Standards-based grading provides explanations of the concepts and material that students should know at each point in their education. These are called learning standards, which provide a baseline that is consistent across all students at this education level. Teachers’ instruction is guided by these standards, and they work to make sure their students learn all of the expected standards they need to before leaving their class. When students receive report cards, they receive a list of learning standards and a grade (on a .5-4 scale) on each standard of how well they mastered the material.
Summative Assessment Scale for each priority standard:
Time Management/Study Habits
In middle school, time becomes a precious commodity. Students normally have five classes in a school day- with five different teachers, five different expectations, and sometimes five different classroom assignments! Along with being responsible for all of the above, students must also be responsible for managing time; both at school and at home. Homework is not normally assigned; however, students will need to study for test at home. Learning and utilizing study skills is an important skill for students to learn to help them throughout their school career.
Organizational Skills
Helping your child with organizational skills can greatly help them not only while in middle school but throughout their life. Students are not permitted to carry backpacks during the school day, so they are assigned lockers. The following is an example based off this years schedule (25-26) for students to carry during the day:
Go to locker first thing in the morning get:
Core 1 materials
Core 2 materials
Pencil bag
Chromebook
Choice reading book
UA materials (if they have any)
Locker break after Core 2 transition switch out materials:
Core 3 materials
Core 4 materials
Pencil bag
Chromebook
Choice reading book
Many students do not think to do this and end up carrying all of their materials all day long which can lead to more disorganization and stress when students cannot find the correct class materials. You may also consider getting two binders for your child to use to separate out their Core class materials into those two binders. Please talk with your child and figure out the best way to help your child start and stay organized.
Social
Problem-Solving, Making Good Choices, and Responsibility
It is important to remember that students’ first priority in middle school is to learn! Social skills can greatly enhance their chance of having a positive environment in which to learn. Efforts and choices will directly affect grades, opportunities to participate in sports and/or other extracurricular activities, peer interactions, and relationships with adults both in and out of school. Part of growing up and gaining independence involves gaining the trust of both teachers and parents. To do so, students must demonstrate responsibility and the ability to make good choices across settings. The students’ ability to problem-solve and choose positive ways to interact with parents, teachers, and peers will aid in making their middle school experience successful.
Making/Choosing Friends
One of the cool but scary things about middle school is seeing all of the new faces. Knowing how to make new friends will be extremely important in the middle school setting. Several different elementary schools feed into one middle school, and students are assigned randomly to teams. As a result, students may not be on the same team with their friends they may have had while in elementary school. Some students might already know a lot of students from their old elementary school, but many students do not know anyone at all because they were the only ones from their elementary school to come to a particular middle school. Going to middle school is a great opportunity to make new friends. Some tips for making new friends are:
• Get involved in school activities
• Introduce yourself to students who sit around you in your classes
• Choose different partners during group work assignments in your classes
• Sit with different groups of people at lunch
• Make an appointment with the school counselor/psychologist for help with making friends
Peer Pressure
Middle school is a time of great transition emotionally, physically, and socially. All of these changes can either be nurtured or hindered by peers. Remember, peer pressure can be either positive or negative. Examples of positive peer pressure might include encouraging friends to study by offering to study with them or motivating them to work hard at a sport. Examples of negative peer pressure might include someone encouraging students to spread rumors, be disruptive in class, or skip school. In order to best handle social pressure, the following tips might be helpful:
• Find friends with similar interests, values, and beliefs
• Be assertive—tell friends what you like/don‘t like
• Don‘t use alcohol or other drugs
• Avoid situations in which you know that you could get into trouble
• Learn to handle conflicts in a positive way
• Talk with trusted adults about situations that you don‘t understand and/or that make you feel
uncomfortable
Bullying
Bullying is unfair (meaning the -bully uses some sort of power over his/her victim), is one-sided (meaning only one person or one group of people are engaging in bullying behavior in the situation), happens on purpose with the intent of hurting, frightening, threatening, or leaving someone out on purpose and it happens repeatedly. Bullying can include behaviors such as:
•Physical violence and attacks
•Extortion and theft
•Taunts, name-calling, and put-downs
•Peer group exclusion
•Threats and intimidation
•Cyberbullying
Help is available to students who feel that they are being bullied. If a student witnesses a bullying situation, they have the power to be part of the problem or part of the solution depending on their reactions to the situation. They can exacerbate the situation by doing nothing, encouraging the bully, or pretending not to see. Students can help the situation by immediately reporting the situation to an adult, by helping the victim to get out of the situation and encouraging the victim to get help.
Cyberbullying
Cyberbullying occurs when students use a data device such as a computer or cell phone to bully or harass other students. This may occur in various ways including text messaging, using social network sites to message each other, and via email.
Peer-Conflict vs Bullying
It’s important to know the difference between peer-conflict and bullying.
Extracurricular Activities
Sports
An activity that rising 6th graders often look forward to in middle school is the opportunity to represent their school in athletics. Students can try out for the following:
School Sports:
Basketball
Volleyball
Archery
Cheerleading
Cross Country & track – through the CHS
Intramural (Spring)
Basketball
Volleyball
Additional Sports offered through high school:
Soccer
Baseball
Softball
Wrestling
Swimming
Be A Fan
Sixth-grade student are encouraged to come to athletic events and support their team and their school. Games are a great way to meet new friends and hang out with old ones.
Resources
The Parent ToolKit
www.today.com/parenting-guides
USAGOV
www.usa.gov/education?source=kids
Mental Health and Social Emotional Websites
National Mental Health Association
https://mhanational.org/
National Mental Health Information Center
https://www.nimh.nih.gov/
Bullying Resources
https://www.stopbullying.gov/