You will typically have three options available to you while you are living abroad: living with a host family, living in a residence hall, or living in an apartment. Standards of living vary by country. Most buildings are much older than any building in the United States. You should consider your goals before making a housing choice. There are pros and cons to each option. Here are some ideas to consider for each option.
Residence Halls/Student Apartments
Accept differences between you and your roommates with an open mind.
If you smoke, discuss the rules for smoking with your roommates. Non-smokers should be aware that more people smoke abroad than in the US and some students pick up the habit while they are overseas.
Consider establishing rules for overnight visitors, cleaning, etc., before it becomes an issue.
Be considerate of others and communicate respectfully when differences occur.
Accept differences between your host family and your family at home with an open mind. There will be an adjustment period but try to get involved in their lives and to contribute to the household.
A small gift for your family is a nice gesture. Ideas: US calendars, chocolate, and small toys for the children (not too noisy though).
Check with your family before giving out their phone number, and address, or inviting guests over.
If you smoke, check with the family regarding rules for smoking in the house. If you are a non-smoker, be aware that smoking is often more common in other countries than it is in the US.
Use electricity and hot water conservatively. Utility costs are much more expensive abroad.
Communicate your travel plans with your host family, especially if you are going to miss meals.
If you have concerns about your host family, talk to your on-site resident director.