Dear Rocky

Q: I’m in a predicament, I cannot figure out what I should be for Halloween. Help me Rocky!!! Plz

A: Hi! The best I can give is figure out something that is going to fit your vibe but recognizable to people. It's always annoying when you spend a lot of time on a costume and no one understands what you're going for. Be something cute and fun for the optimal halloween experience! If you want to go all out, then do it!!! Get the glitter, get the wig, and go crazy! It's the only time of year you can! 

Q: Is 16 too old to go trick or treating?

A: I'm going to hold your hand when I say this, it might be a little old. Not saying that going out with your friends to some houses and getting some treats is bad, but being out the whole night and working to get some old 100 Grands from your elderly neighbors might not be the most ideal way to spend the night. 

Q: I am bored at home, what activities can I do in the fall??

A: There is so much to do in the fall! Some options include a pumpkin patch, apple picking, carving pumpkins, going to a corn maze, and baking fall treats. If you're going for a spooky vibe, then a haunted house and horror movie is going to be your friend this season! #autumnal #spooked

Q: The best candy to give out on halloween?

A: Never stray away from a good old Reeses Cup and classic Hershey's. If you're not into chocolate, maybe pass out Sour Patch Kids, I know they are a fan favorite. Make sure to get what you like you can steal and munch while passing out some candy! 

Q: Hola Rocky! How are you? I’m great, thanks for asking. Do you think homemade costumes are better or store bought? Love, Your Spooky Admirer

A: Hola!!! Doing good and feeling spooky! Great question! Honestly, it’s up to you. If you want to put the time into making a homemade costume go for it! By making it yourself, you can really make it how you want it to look. But on the other hand, a store bought costume can be easier and convenient. Personally I think it depends on what you are dressing up as. If it matches a homemade vibe, make it! If it’s easier to purchase it then buy it!!

Q: Hi Rocky! Thanksgiving is coming up and I am scared of my relatives bringing up controversial topics :( like I don’t want to talk about that stuff Aunt Martha! What should I do if they start to argue?!! 

A: Hi there, this is a hard question. Honestly, this is a struggle at every family event for me #guysplzstop. I would suggest trying to interrupt the convo and spice things up by bringing up a random positive thing,  non sequitur if you will. You could suggest playing a game! My favorite to play with the fam is “Sorry” :)

Q: Heyyyy Rocky!! So I just got this job and my first day is going to be Black Friday. I’m so nervous!! What should I do to stay calm during Black Friday? 

A: Heyy what’s up miss girl!!? First off, congrats!!! Second off, wow. I am so sorry they want you to work on Black Friday. That’s just not #cool. If someone is giving you a hard time, take a deep breath and say you’ll check the back and never come back. Jk ;) but honestly if they are rude tell them to stop and get your manager. Remember this is only one day in the year and it will be chill!! Gotta have a chill mindset.

Q: HIII ROCKY how are you doinnn!? I want to get the best deals this Black Friday but I am scared someone will try to fight me at the stores. What should I do to try and protect myself and the fun things I will be buying?!?!? Trying to survive and get my shop on lol!

A: Hello missy! Black Friday can get a little intense but if someone is seriously trying to attack you that is #crazy. Some people get so intense about shopping and I promise you it is not that serious!! But if you do feel unsafe then I recommend just getting out. It’s every man for themselves out there on Black Friday but just remember that no material good is ever worth your life! #staysafe #stayshopping 

Q: Hello Rocky! What should I do if I want to get a Black Friday deal on a gift for someone, but I’m not sure if I will still be in contact with them by Christmas time?????? 

A: Heyyy friend, if you are feeling like that already, I would say just skip the gift! If you are questioning the relationship, then don’t bother getting that gift no matter how good the deal! #nomatterthepricetag #selfworth

Q: Rocky, what should I do if my store that I am working at gets looted on Black Friday????? 

A: Hiii! Well let’s hope this does not happen. But if it does, immediately notify your manager and the police! Stealing is not a joke and people need to realize this!! That’s #criminal activity. As always, protect yourself before anything and please always try to stay safe!!! 

Q: Rocky wazzup! I love Thanksgiving and want to do a Friendsgiving but I feel like none of my friends that I would invite would come? Idk I just feel like they would think it's weird? Help me! 

A: Woah, can I be honest with you? These friends seem really not great!! You should have friends that want to hangout with you no matter what you are going to do! Friendsgiving is a totally normal and fun event for the fall time and you should definitely still invite them and have some fun! Get some good #grub and enjoy time with your friends that actually want to hangout with you! #gobblegobble

Q: Hey Rocky, Merry Christmas (if you celebrate of course) I am not able to get into the holly jolly mood. My finals are making me nervous, I don’t have sufficient funds to buy everyone around me a nice gift, and I am overwhelmeddddd!! 

A: Girl, let's take a deep breath together! This time of year can be tough but you can do it!!!! I know that finals are hard, and it can be overwhelming to try and get everyone in your life thoughtful gifts, but this time of year is #magical and you shouldn’t spend it all being stressed. Take some time and study up #academicweapon but trust yourself. You have been taking the class all semester, you can do it!!! A thoughtful gift for someone doesn’t have to be expensive, the majority of the time a homemade gift touches the heart more, and, girl, welcome to the overwhelmed club. I may as well be the president. 

Q: Rocky, I need some serious help. I have been hanging out and talking to this guy for about a month now and I am so conflicted if I should be getting him a Christmas gift!! 

A: Hmmm this is a tough one but in my humble opinion I am going to have to say skip the gift on this guy. If he hasn’t made it official with you, then no way should you be going out spending your hard earned cash on him!!! #putaringonit #makeitofficial

Q: Hiii, my whole family is going to be in town this whole holiday season #ugh, what are some things that I can do with them (or without them ;) 

A: Ugh I feel you on this one and having family in town can be overwhelming and tiring #auntMartha, but there are so many great things to do this time of year!!!!! I recommend baking some holiday goodies, driving around and seeing all of the Christmas lights, and I hear that there is a special holiday event going on at the Rose Hill Museum. When people are staying with you, I always recommend you #getout as much as possible so it makes it easier!!! #AuntMarthainmyroom

Q: Heyyy Rocky! New Year's Eve is coming up and I am scared I am going to have no plans :( What should I do if I don’t get invited to any parties? I feel left outtttt!!! 

A: Hey there! First off, I am so sorry. I understand what it feels like to not get invited to some things. Don’t fret girly!! Hangout with your family or honestly have a chill self care night. Ring in the new year loving yo self!!!!! #newyearnewme It’s the busiest time of the year and people tend to forget things so don’t be discouraged, you might still get the invite :)))))) 

Q: Hey there Rocky boo!!!! I am doing this secret santa thing with some people at work and I seriously don’t know these people. I chose this one person but I have absolutely no clue on what to get themmm! 

A: Hi there. A secret santa at work sounds so #litlikemyxmastree. I think that is super fun!! I think a cozy pair of socks and some candy is the perfect little gift. If I were you, I would discreetly ask them some questions to gauge what kind of candy or little things they like! Remember, it’s the thought that counts. They should be happy they even got a giftttt! I’m sure they will enjoy whatever you get them. #merrychristmassss

Q: Hiiii Rocky!! One of my New Year’s resolutions is to be confident but after slipping in the school parking lot on the ice. I don’t know if I can do it anymore :((( please help me I feel so embarrassed everyone saw 

A: Hey queen, keep your head up! I can tell you everyone and their brother has slipped or tripped before. It’s completely ok and I bet no one even remembers. Go into 2025 with some #baddieenergy and stay confident!!!!!! Maybe next time if you fall, bring someone down with you to ease the embarrassment ;)

Q: Greetings Rocky. I just had a meeting about scheduling classes for next year and I am STRESSIN! I feel like I need to take all of the hardest classes but I really don’t want to :/ plz help me I need some guidance!!!!!

A: Hello there missy! These scheduling forms always take years off of your life but you need to remember that this is your schedule! Don’t feel outside pressure that you need to be taking certain classes especially if you don’t want to. At the end of the day it's nobody’s business what you are taking! Be youuuuuu #mindurownbusiness #academia 

Q: Rocky I seriously need your help. One of my New Year’s resolutions was to drop all of my fake friends but now I feel like I have no oneeeeeee!! I think I might’ve made a mistake! I don’t know what to do, help me Rocky!! I’m so nervoussss!

A: Heyyyy let’s just take a deep breath. If those friends were truly fake we are better #without them!!! It’s a new semester so branch out and talk to some people in your new classes!!!! In the long run you will be happy that you got rid of the negative energy!!!! I applaud you for being able to confront the issue!!! That’s so fierce! #biggerandbetterin2025 #gogirlll

Q: Rocky plz listen, this January has been tough and I feel like I have been a bad friend and sister :( I have been really stressed with school and classes changing, the weather is cold, my skin is dry, and i'm pale. I know that these are all minor problems but together I have been a #menace to those that I care about. How do I fix the relationships where I caused the problems!?!?!

A: Hey girl, this is a great question and I am proud that you are willing to put in the work to make these relationships better, it means that you truly do care about these people! January is never easy and can bring out the worst in people but the biggest thing I can suggest is communication. It sounds easy but can be difficult. Let your friends and family know that you do care about them even if your actions may have been a little #sus. If these are people who truly care about you they will understand that it’s a difficult time of year, but also hold yourself accountable. Make conscious choices to be nicer and easier on your loved ones, it’s not easy but if you love and cherish these people it's so important. You can do it!!!!!!! #januaryistheworst #letsgetthroughthewintertogether