Back to Bachelor: A Gritty Guide to Dating, Confidence, and Rebuilding Life After Divorce

Dating after 30 is a minefield. Dating after divorce? A whole damn war.
Back to Bachelor is your field manual.

If you’ve spent years as a husband and now find yourself a single man in a swipe-driven world—you’re not alone. This book is for the men who’ve lost more than just their marriage. It’s for the men ready to stop surviving and start building something real.

Inside you’ll learn how to:

• Rebuild rock-solid confidence after heartbreak

• Navigate modern dating with masculine clarity and purpose

• Use career-tested strategies (yes, even sales) to make real romantic connections

• Avoid self-sabotage, bad dates, and emotional traps

• Show up as a present and powerful father

• Redefine success, masculinity, and mission—on your terms

Packed with unfiltered wisdom, battle-tested mindset shifts, and the hard-earned lessons of a man who’s been through the fire—this isn’t a self-help book. It’s a tactical playbook.

• For men over 30

• For fathers, fighters, and the formerly broken

• For the guy who's ready to reclaim his life—starting now

Mateo Rojas is a father, entrepreneur, and former inner city underdog turned real estate pro—with the scars (and stories) to prove it. After surviving divorce, and stepping back into the brutal modern dating world, Mateo wrote Back to Bachelor to give men the no-fluff, field-tested tools they need to rise again. His approach? Grit, strategy, and emotional intelligence—with a shot of whiskey and a punch of truth. This isn’t theory. This is lived experience. And he’s just getting started.