Rooted in the stories and wisdom of our Elders of Tsis tsis'tas (Northern Cheyenne Tribe), Piikani Nation (Blackfeet Tribe), Apsáalooke Nation (Crow Tribe), and Assiniboine & Sioux Tribes of the Fort Peck Reservation.
“Just as a dragonfly, born at the bottom of ponds and waterways, transforms and flies above the water into a beautiful creature… This gave me understanding, peace, and comfort. I now see dragonflies differently.”
— DIANE SPOTTED ELK, NORTHERN CHEYENNE ELDER
The dragonfly is a guiding symbol for this toolkit, shared with us by Northern Cheyenne Elder Diane Spotted Elk. In her grief, Diane received comfort through the dragonfly’s transformation: a teaching about change, peace, and life beyond loss. Her story reminds us that healing is a journey of transformation.
We thank the Elders who shared their stories of grief, healing, and resilience. Their words guide us as individuals, families, and communities walking through loss or supporting others in their healing.
The Forest of Resilience: Healing with Grief Toolkit was created to support Tribal Nations as they navigate grief, loss, and healing. Rooted in the voices and teachings of Elders from the Northern Cheyenne, Blackfeet, Crow, and Fort Peck Tribes, this resource weaves together stories, ceremonies, and practices that honor Indigenous ways of grieving and living well.
This work grew through collaboration between the Rocky Mountain Tribal Leaders Council, Allyson Kelley & Associates PLLC, and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, with guidance from Tribal Maternal Mortality Review Committees (MMRCs).
The toolkit carries forward the wisdom of Elders, the strength of families, and the resilience of Tribal communities. It is offered as a living resource; one that affirms there is not just one way to grieve, and not just one way to live.
This section explores how grief is experienced and understood in Tribal communities today. It highlights cultural teachings, traditional practices, and the impacts of historical trauma. Offering insight into how loss is processed and honored across generations.
Highlights include:
Quotes and teachings from Elders
Differences between colonial and Indigenous views of grief
Importance of ceremony, language, and collective healing
In this section, Tribal Elders share their personal stories, reflections, and cultural practices around grief, loss, and healing. Their words offer comfort, strength, and a deeper understanding of how communities carry sorrow and find ways to heal.
Highlights include:
Firsthand accounts from Elders across multiple Tribes
Examples of mourning rituals, memorials, and cultural healing practices
Emphasis on resilience, family, and spiritual connection
This interactive Healing Resource Map serves as a starting point and is not a comprehensive list. Resource ideas come from Tribal Elders.
Everyone's healing journey is unique. We've gathered additional resources that may speak to different needs. Some are made for Indigenous and Tribal communities while others offer support for anyone navigating grief.
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