Being parents, carers, and/or supporters of college-bound teenagers means striking a difficult balance. While students need your support and advice, this is one of their first significant adult decisions. Encourage your student to have confidence in their abilities, and give them the authority to be in charge of the process.
When starting this process, it's ideal to have a discussion about what role each person will play and necessary boundaries. Consider:
How and when will you discuss universities and university options? Are time limits needed?
What are the expectations of each person involved?
What are realistic financial considerations? Parents, carers, and supporters are essential in this conversation.
What is helpful and what is not?
***Keep in mind that the answers to these prompts may change throughout the process.
If your child does not like what they are doing, their chances of doing it well, being successful, and making a healthy salary, decrease dramatically.
Before you push your thoughts, plans, ideas, ask yourself why this is so important to you.
Trust that your student will figure it out.
Each year the AISD Future Planning Counselor asks parents to provide information about their son or daughter. This will help your child’s Counselor gain a more complete picture of your soon-to-be high school graduate. This information may be used in a counselor recommendation for students applying to universities worldwide. The counselor recommendation is a unique opportunity to add information or explain a circumstance otherwise not revealed in school records, student essays, standardized tests, or teacher recommendations. If there is something you feel is important to share, please include this.
Please email your responses to Ms. Amanda Lopez by Thursday, 25 September, 2025
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