How to Flirt 101

by Lena Leatherman

For some, flirting may come easy, but for others, they could use some extra practice. Being socially awkward isn’t very fun when trying to give someone the hint that you like them. For those struggling in the flirting department, don’t worry because there is still hope!

If you’re a shy person, taking baby steps will go a long way. Texting someone that they looked good is an easy way to flirt without them seeing your nervous blush. Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone because usually you won’t get shot down. 

If you’d rather flirt with someone in person, it could be very nerve racking. Cracking a joke or using a funny pick up line (not cheesy ones like “I’m no photographer, but I can picture us together” lines) is a good way to relieve some tension. Laugh at their jokes and keep the conversation flowing. Asking a question is another easy way to break the ice. For girls, asking a guy, “What outfit should I wear tomorrow?” will make a guy feel proud that they got to pick out your outfit. For guys, teasing a girl nicely is a good way to make her laugh and maybe even blush. 

The most important thing to do while flirting is to keep your cool and act natural. Don’t freak out and do too much because it could make the person you’re talking to uncomfortable. If you pass them by in the hallway, give them a little nudge so you can acknowledge them without making that awkward eye contact. 

An easy way to a guy or girl's heart is food. If you don’t want to go out to eat alone, invite them to go with you. Going out to eat is a great way to get to know each other and to become comfortable with one another. Now that you have some tips on how to flirt, remember that life is too short to be nervous to talk to someone. Go shoot your shot!