This is the sermon that Dad preached at my wedding to Tracy. You know this one was going to make the cut. Ignore that 1981 date, I'm sure I got married in 1991. This is the last sermon in the archive.
Tracy and Fred, the words I want to share with you on your wedding day are from the New Testament book of Hebrews Chapter 12 verses 1 & 2.
“Therefore since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight and the sin which clings so closely, and let us run with perseverance the race that is set before us looking to Jesus the pioneer and perfecter of our faith.”
You have made a good beginning in building a life together. I sense that you know that nothing in life is more important than relationships, friendships. The author of Hebrews would have us know we have wondrous support as we run the race of life together. All who have gone before us, all we say are “dead”, are a great cloud of witnesses who surround us. They “pull for us”, they cheer us in our pursuit of fullness of life. Among the witnesses are grandparents, great-grandparents, descendants unknown. All them have lived in their time, have married, have had families, have worried, have rejoiced, have fought, have forgiven. Remember the great cloud of witnesses. They want you to, as they remember you.
As you remember, learn from the witnesses, even those witnesses here today. Learn from them what are the ingredients for a loving, lasting relationship. There is a vast amount of wisdom which the witnesses have accumulated with regard to marriage. They model for us how to hold to promises in the best of times, and in the worst of times. We know we live in a turbulent and troubling time. It's a time in our land when more often than not “things” are considered more important than people. It is a difficult time in which to build lasting relationships, to keep promises. (Thank God that His is a deed of forgiveness.) Keeping company with, and tuning in on the wisdom of the great cloud of witnesses can help us to be people persons, promise keepers.
Fred and Tracy, run with perseverance the race upon which you now enter together. Go for the record! Be pioneers! Show the way in which a covenanted marriage can be the environment in which two persons can learn love, can be lovers for each other, and can be a blessing to all others they know in life. All the witnesses will be cheering you on.
1 Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with perseverance the race that is set before us, 2 looking to Jesus the pioneer and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.
1 A Song of Ascents. I lift up my eyes to the hills. From whence does my help come? 2 My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth. 3 He will not let your foot be moved, he who keeps you will not slumber. 4 Behold, he who keeps Israel will neither slumber nor sleep. 5 The Lord is your keeper; the Lord is your shade on your right hand. 6 The sun shall not smite you by day, nor the moon by night. 7 The Lord will keep you from all evil; he will keep your life. 8 The Lord will keep your going out and your coming in from this time forth and for evermore.
4 Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; 5 it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; 6 it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never ends; as for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away.
7 Beloved, let us love one another; for love is of God, and he who loves is born of God and knows God. 8 He who does not love does not know God; for God is love. 9 In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. 10 In this is love, not that we loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the expiation for our sins. 11 Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12 No man has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.