Child Development

4-5 years old

How will your child grow this year?

Social & Emotional

  • Shows interested in new tasks and experiences with confidence
  • Interacts with other children positively
  • Engages in pretend play
  • Takes care of own needs independently (dressing/undressing, cleaning up, washing/drying hands, and potty trained)
  • Controls own feelings and behaviors, and asks for help when needed to resolve problems
  • Follows rules and routines

Language

  • Hears and understands most of what is said at home and in school
  • Friends and relatives should understand your child's speech
  • Pays attention to short stories and answers simple questions about it
  • Tells detailed stories that stay on topic

How you can help your child...

  • Encourage your child to play
  • Practice independence in dressing, undressing, potty training, and small jobs around the house
  • Allow no more than 2 hours of screen time per day (TV, video games, iPad/computer)
  • Send your child to bed by 8 PM.
  • Engage in conversation daily with your child about school, food, toys, and friends.
  • Read daily with your child.
  • Ask your child questions (who, what, when, where, why, and how)
  • Be aware of your child's feelings and help them identify why they feel that way.